First sexual experience - Sexual Health - General Message Board

howdymiles · 08-19-2003, 03:22 AM

Im 19 and had sex for the first time a few days ago, and i got pleasure out of him going down on me, but when we had sex he didnt ejaculate or have an orgasim what am i doing wrong?? Does he just not like me? We had both been drinking, but now im embarassed and think he will tell people that i was horrible and unable to satisfy him help!!!

BlueberryM · 08-19-2003, 07:04 AM

Hi Howdy,,
It was probably the alcohol. I find if you drink alot it is harder to orgasm for a man or woman..
Dont think too much into it at this point... you will see next time it might be different with less alcohol invoved! Take care

Mr.Nice · 08-19-2003, 11:16 AM

Also if it was his first time it is hard to ejaculate, he needs to get used to it.

orion · 08-19-2003, 02:49 PM

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Originally posted by howdymiles:
but now im embarassed and think he will tell people that i was horrible and unable to satisfy him help!!!

I doubt he is going to tell anyone he couldn't ejaculate with you, that would be very embarassing for him. After all guys are "suppose" to be great in bed, right? If any thing he is worried you might think he wasn't very good and might tell people. I guess next time not so much drinking.

german30 · 08-19-2003, 03:02 PM

I doubt if he will tell anyone that he didn't ejaculate, to most men that wouldn't be very macho. Just talk about it and decide what may help both of you