Anal - Sexual Health - General Message Board

Jan 2 · 08-26-2003, 10:44 AM

Ok, I have been reading alot on this subject and I have seen most questions about how to have anal. But how do I get husband to have anal sex with me. I have been wanting him to have anal sex with me, but do not know how to bring this up to him. Any suggestions on how o bring this up to him without emabarrassing myself? Thanks!

fairiegoddess · 08-26-2003, 10:49 AM

i myself would just flat out ask him...but thats me. you could always ask hinting questions and get a feel for his thoughts on the subject. open communication is the best way to go with sex matters! but if you are too embarassed to flat out ask then just ask him questions like "what do you think of this"? or w/e you can think of to bring the topic up without actually revealing that you are interested in doing this. my hubby would give anything to have me wanna do that but nooooooooo way ouchers for me lol. but good luck to you either way!

JDinCA · 08-26-2003, 11:02 AM

Make sure your clean up there and have plenty of lubricant. Then don't ask him tell him after you have made him wildly horny with lots of erotic foreplay. How can he resist!

Chazzz · 08-26-2003, 01:39 PM

My GF loves anal sex and isn't shy about letting me know when she wants it. But one of the most exciting times was when she DIDN'T tell me. Maybe you could try this with your man...

We were fooling around with her on top. I hadn't yet penetrated her, and she was rubbing the head of my penis all around her vulva. The feeling on me was great - lotsa lube - and when she shifted slightly and took me inside, I didn't even realize that I had entered her anus instead of her vagina. Of course it didn't take long for me to register the different feeling, but by that time I was deep inside her and the fun began!

So I guess I'm saying -- if you can't talk about it with your man, you could "sneak up" on him!

Good luck (and use a condom!)

Magnetic · 08-26-2003, 06:47 PM

Chazzz is correct. Unless he is large, get yourself lubed up real good and get in the doggie and direct him his penis in yourself. He will get the idea, if he is even aware of it. One caution, if you normally have unprotected sex, it is wise to use condoms. Lots of people have no problems, but some nasty bacterial infections (urinary) can result.