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Old 08-21-2003, 10:00 PM   #1
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Question love to watch a man masterbait! how can i make him more comfortable?

love to watch a man masterbait turns me on alot but always seem to have a problam with the guy feeling the courage to let it all hang out as if he where alone is it time for me to break out a hiddin camera in the bath room or just beg!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Old 08-21-2003, 10:46 PM   #2
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they're probably just scared. i do know a lot of guys who love to watch women masturbate; maybe you could offer to reciprocate.
one thing to keep in mind is that seemingly most men are voyeurs, while women seem more likely to be exhibitionists.
but yeah, they're probably just scared. if you're really determined, just make the point that it really turns you on, you might get lucky.
good luck.

 
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Old 08-21-2003, 11:05 PM   #3
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If you guy is shy you might just kind of take his hand when you are giving him a hand job and put his hand there and once you get him going I think it will be fine. Many times men enjoy stroking themselves for their partner and ejaculating on their partners body.

 
Old 08-22-2003, 06:43 AM   #4
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Hi,

I'm a male and I LOVE masterbatin gin front of my girlfriend and she loves to watch. I love the idea that someone is watching me!

However, I used to find it embarrasing to do it and I think one useful way to get over this is for the man to close his eyes or for him to feel you whilst he is masterbating. Mutual solo masterbation is a big turn on too...

Try things out. I must say that it is important that you both trust each other when doing things like that - it makes you both comfortable with it.

I love sex so much!

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Old 08-22-2003, 02:52 PM   #5
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Topspin if i where a man i would love to be u! U seem like u think on the same wave link that i am trying to persuade my other half to join!Openess is a good thing for the bed room and i feel like the more things people do in front of each other the closer u become!

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Old 08-22-2003, 09:35 PM   #6
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I think most men would be happy to masturbate in front of you and would consider it a very exciting thing to do. Sharing the intimacy of showing a woman how you pleasure yourself as well as producing an ejaculation for her enjoyment should be a total turn on especially if she is involved in perhaps touching his penis while he masturbates or in touching or tasting the ejaculate he produces.

 
Old 08-23-2003, 04:34 PM   #7
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I've seen several straight porn movies where there is a guy masturbating while watching others have sex. I think it is kind of cool that a straight guy is open enough to get naked and jack off in front of the camera while watching someone else having sex, knowing that literally thousands of other men will see him masturbating when they rent the movie.

 
Old 08-23-2003, 08:58 PM   #8
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give him the eye when he is doing it. my b/f was shocked i liked it, but it really show how much of a man he is. Let him know you like it in any way possible, but don't cut yourself short!

 
Old 08-26-2003, 01:46 PM   #9
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If this doesn't turn you off, lie on the bed and ask your guy to kneel and masturbate above your face. My GF loves it when I do this; she says the view from that angle makes my **** looks huge and powerful (which guys love to hear!). And I love watching her watch me...

If you don't like getting c*m on your face or in your mouth, you can always "redirect" him when he shoots.
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Old 08-27-2003, 01:48 AM   #10
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If you think about it, don't most of us equate masturbation with being by ourselves, on a subconscious level? It's been a private activity, most of, if not all of our lives. For a guy, being solo usually triggers the urge. Find you have the house to yourself,and some time to spare ( truth be told if we find we have the house to ourselves we will make the time no matter if there's any to spare) we will masturbate. So your asking him to do it with you present, can at first be an uncomfortable and awkward but certainly not impossible request. Try approaching the subject with a little discretion. For instance when your being intimate and at one point he takes his **** into his own hand for whatever reason, use it as an opportunity to compliment on how sexy it looks in his hand. Tell him not to stop handling himself for a little while longer because it's really turning you on. Continue talking to him lustfully about what it's doing for you. In essence, paint him a picture, if you will mentally. Let him know through your words and actions what seeing his throbbing and ever growing bigger and thicker **** is doing to you with ever stroke of his big manly hand(see where I'm going with this)? LOL! You get the idea. In doing so your approaching the subject of him masturbating for you in a sexy but albeit round about way. He can then be comfortable about it, which beats, (pun intended) "Hey whip it out and jack it for me"! <side note> This, Ladies, is the only time being blunt isn't your best approach in getting what you want out of your man. But that's it! In every other aspect of life its best if a woman didn't dance http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/dance.gifaround the subject when trying to relate matters to a guy. Guys just aren't programmed to read between the lines. LOL!

 
Old 08-28-2003, 10:01 AM   #11
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Hi,

Chazzz - My girlfriend likes me to masterbate over her chest... she loves it and has said to me that it maked me look big and powerful - I guess this must be more common than I thought!

It's great that people can be open and like carolina said - I think it really does bring two people closer together, it increases the trust and bond that two people have for each other.

How are you getting on with your situation carolina?

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