Could my girlfriend be pregnant? - Sexual Health - General Message Board

chris69abc · 09-02-2003, 12:02 AM

Hi,

My girlfriend and I always have protected sex once in a while. The last time we had sex though, as I was pulling out of her (I hadn't *** yet) I noticed that the condom had slid to the tip of my penis even though the head of it was still covered by about an inch with the condom but it had slipped from the shaft. I really don't know how long it had been like this. I think it was slippery from the precum that was in the condom.

Anyway, I took off the condom, and put on a new one and proceeded as usual. Now that I look back, the possibilities of her becoming pregnant from that incident are haunting me.

Her period started 2 days later and it was a typical period with all the symptoms during the third week of august. I think I'm alot more worried than she is right now. She doesn't seem worried about it at all and she hasn't been having any symptoms or anything.

But after reading all the posts about symptoms and when they actually begin, it's got me worried because I guess it's too early to show any signs to tell whether or not she's pregnant. Help!

joshsmith_99 · 09-02-2003, 12:07 AM

well
it most likely slipped of during the pull out (hint.. thats why peopel grab the base of the condom when pulling out, do that next time:P ) i doubt that you got her pregnant if the formentioned is the case, the only way to find out though is trough the pregnancy test. but as long as it wasnt off the whole time, which i doubt it was, you fine.

good luck bud

chris69abc · 09-02-2003, 12:19 AM

Oh, I just remembered now that she's been complaining of being fat. Well, yes, she's always been a wee bit chubby in the tummy area and yes, she's always complained about it or at least poked fun at her self, but lately her remarks have been making me PARANOID!! Is she pregnant????? Well then again, does plumping up happen this early into a pregnancy? That is, if she's pregnant.

HGF109 · 09-02-2003, 01:04 AM

I think your okay. I really dont think she would be gaining weight this early. How long are we talking since this happended? You said she already got her period right? Perhaps a run down of the dates will help some of the more educated board memebrs tell you more facts.

Hang in there . . . God's Blessings,
HGF

MrNice · 09-02-2003, 12:08 PM

I'm confused. You said your girlfriend's period started two days after this happened. If she got her period then she cant be pregnant.

As for the condom slipping. Do hold onto the rim as you pull out to prevent that from happening. And, if you have ejaculated pull out right after you have completed your ejaculation and before you penis loses its erection.

Also, use a condom that has spermicdal lubricant. That way if you have pre-ejaculate fluid which might contain sperm it will kill the sperm. Similarly it will do the same once you ejaculate. Nonetheless, as soon as the ejaculation is complete withdraw to prevent the condom from slipping. Also, it is wise for your girlfriend to use a vaginal contraceptive such as a foam, gel or cream in addition to the condom. This way should a condom break or slip and semen be deposited into or around her vagina the contraceptive she is using will protect her against pregnancy.