going down - Sexual Health - General Message Board

maybelle · 09-05-2003, 01:08 PM

I am just curious. A guy that says that he will try going down on you, although he has not gone down on any other women in the past becuase because of reasons such as it is unclean, etc.... If you are the first for a guy in terms of him giving oral on you, does that mean he thinks you are special... or what is the significance of it if any??/ Thanks

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notamonk · 09-05-2003, 01:19 PM

I would think maybe he wants to be more at ease with what you like and in the past he was not as confortable as whith the 'other person' maybe you make him more comfortable with sexual stuff than he has been in the past...

Miss Independent · 09-06-2003, 10:06 AM

If the reasons before are because he thought it was unclean then surely you can take this as a compliment that your hygiene is up to scratch.

Or perhaps he meant it in a way that the whole act of it is unclean, if he meant this, I would take it that he is more at ease with you and that he is comfortable doing this for you, he probably wants to please you.