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Old 08-19-2011, 10:54 PM   #1
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Never had an orgasm..

Ok im 38 and never had an orgasm. I know im missing out.. So I was never into masturbation. I always thought it was a gross thing for woman but ok for men. Well now I have finally devcided to try and still NO ORGASM..
My clitoris is very sensitive to the point where I can barely touch it.. Maybe only in certain spots but WHAT IS WRNG WITH ME ! I WANT AN ORGASM...Should I try woman? I am now wondering if I should date woman.. I am open to that idea...

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Old 08-23-2011, 12:52 PM   #2
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Re: Never had an orgasm..

Just relax....take a long hot bath.....make love you yourself....get a nice vibrator...t.ake your timmmmmmeeeeeeeee..............it'll happen........promise!

 
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Old 08-23-2011, 02:22 PM   #3
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Re: Never had an orgasm..

Hey, if you're open to the idea and aren't in a relationship, I say go for it, with women.
I too fantasize about being with a woman and wish I had experimented, but I'm in a commited relationship now and feel I've lost my chance.
Anywho..as far as having an orgasm, oooh girl! You don't know what you're missing! Masturbation is very healthy in both men and women. I know what you mean about the clitoris being too sensitive. It happens to me too. What you should do is not touch it directly. Place your fingers on top of your lips directly above your clitoris and rub in circular motions or back and forth...whatever works for you.
A vibrator is a girls best friend. Get one. Get two! And just like your fingers, don't place the vibrator directly on your clitoris. But definitely play with it and find out what you like. Inserting your vibrator into your vagina and rubbing your clitoris with your fingers will give you alot of pleasure.
I hope this helped... just relax and think about what ever turns you on. Watch porn..that always works for me.

 
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Re: Never had an orgasm..

Porn!!!! A man's best friend! Just kidding......like she said....relax.....learn what makes you tick!!! good luck!

 
Old 10-25-2011, 02:20 PM   #5
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Re: Never had an orgasm..

Holy Catfish! That must be frustrating. I hope you are able to figure something out so you can enjoy an orgasm, or two.

 
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