Need advice, small @ 22 - Sexual Health - General Message Board

ShadMan · 09-06-2003, 10:43 PM

I have an issue and I'm wondering if something is medically wrong with me. I'm 22, I use to weigh a lot more but I weigh 230 now and stand about 5'9. I know that the more overweight you are, the smaller your penis is.. so I've heard.

But at the age of 22, my penis when soft is an inch or two, very small, but is also extremely thin as well. When I'm hard, I may get like 4 or 5" long. Either soft or hard, my penis is very thin.. in fact I can take just my thumb and middle finger and completely wrap them around my penis.

On top of that, I'm so embarassed of it I haven't had sex yet and too ashamed of it.. that and plus my weight.. what's wrong with me?

LosingWeight · 09-07-2003, 07:32 AM

Hey,
I have the exact same problem. I'm around your age, and my measurements seem the same as yours. It's very embarassing, and I don't know what to do about it either. I, too, haven't had sex yet due to embarassment. It just seems like my penis hasn't grown since I was a baby!

Can anyone help us?

Meg28 · 09-07-2003, 04:16 PM

Perhaps you'll be relieved to know that on average an erect penis is 5 to 6 inches long. Society has made it seem that "real men" have 8" dicks (and some do) but most don't. Here's something else - only the first three inches of a woman's vagina has nerves so you'll be able to cover that no problem! Plus you also have fingers and lips and a tongue so you're all set.
And you'd be surprised how many girls like big sized men - you're like big teddy bears!
Accept yourselves and you will be accepted. Good luck!
Meg

notamonk · 09-07-2003, 08:41 PM

Shadman -

I am 5'6" (maybe 5'7") and an 38 yo - For the longest time i weighed in at just under 160 for most of high school and beyond - As of Nov.2002 I weighed in at about 205-210 and decided that if I needed to lose this weight and get back to my old self - I am now at 170 as of today and it has been hell trying to lose weight - I did this by motivating myself, my motivation of course is doubtfully of any help to you but I am trying to start a relationship and being that I'm gay most guy don't go for overwieght guys - anyway my point is find something that will be a reward for losing weight and stick to it - the penis 'seems' smaller due to the fat deposits around it - there are statistics that say about an inch of length is 'gained' once the fat deposits are lost - how much weigth that may be depends on person to person of course but if it is something that you truly desire to fix I suggest starting a diet - probably atkins, kinda expensive but very effective if done without cheating - cheating will not bring ant results. I used Herbalife, again very effective if you bear with the program.

Miss Independent · 09-08-2003, 06:41 AM

I couldnt agree with Meg more.

You might feel like you are small but as her statistics prove you are not below average at all. Not only do you, as she so rightly said, have the use of other parts of your body to please a woman but toys are great fun too. Now I know the best lover I have had certainly didnt have the biggest "Penis"

While people tend to shrug off the saying Its not the size its what you do with it. But speaking as a woman, I couldnt agree more.