Frustrated... - Sexual Health - General Message Board

poolgurl · 08-27-2003, 01:27 PM

Hi!
Just frustrated with my long term boyfriend...
can anyone give me alittle insight to the following issue:
Yesterday afternoon we had sex it was great as usual, He got up ate and I left with plans of being gone for at least 1 hr. Plans changed I ended up back at the house less than 20mins after we had just had sex, He had just finished masturbating !!!!!!!!!!UGH...GRR....
I freaked out, felt worthless like I hadn't satisifed him and then to top it off, he says " I do this alot"

Am I wrong to feel like crap? He says Im blowing this way out of portion. I say I'm not

PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE THIS OUT???

Thanks

henryd · 08-27-2003, 01:59 PM

Are you saying he didn't climax with the sex you had?????

Jan 2 · 08-27-2003, 02:02 PM

You are totally blowing this way out of proportion. First of all lets get this straight about men... Just because he masturbates does not mean you are not satisfying him. Most men have very strong sex drives, especially when they are young. I have been married with my hubby for 3 years and we have been with one another for a total of 8 years. He still masturbates. I have no problem with masturbation. Besides its theirs and they can play with it all they want. Think of it this way, would you rather he go out and sleep with someone else or play with himself? Have you ever tried masturbation? Its absolutely wonderful and you should try it sometime. Do not be offended by his playfulness. Try being more open minded about it. Could be worse than just him play with himself.