Virgin at 22 a bad thing? - Sexual Health - General Message Board

dazed34 · 09-01-2003, 08:44 PM

K, Im a 22yr guy and still a virgin. Is this a really bad thing? I just worry about getting into a relationship where this will come up in a yr or 2 yrs or whenever and wonder what the girl is going to think.

OtakuTess · 09-01-2003, 11:34 PM

I'm a 20 year old girl, in the same boat. It seems like that's just not acceptable anymore, huh?

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joshsmith_99 · 09-02-2003, 12:04 AM

dont worry about it bud.
being a virgin at this age is perfectly normal.
most(alot anyway) people dont believe in pre-marital relations (sex before marridge). such as myself.
dont worry about it at all, as long as you healthy, your fine

notamonk · 09-02-2003, 12:08 AM

Well first of all being a virgin (IMO) is just a state of mind - a long past tradition that was primarily kept in the more elite faction of society. I do not think it really applies in modern day society - I think if you are still a 'virgin' ( M or F ) then you probably have a very realistic view on sex and do not let the pressures of society bother you. You will eventually decide for yourself when the right time to become sexually active with another person. It's kinda funny how easy it seems to be able to answer someone else problem yet not be able to answer your own... do you ever wonder why??? Hmmmm...

Lance2 · 09-02-2003, 03:33 AM

Hey Dazed, its your body and your decision. Personally I chose to wait until I married at 35, so if I can do it...so can you. Yep, I took tons of crap from my friends but it was MY choice and I'm glad I waited. So, although it isn't a common thing, it says alot to your future bride that you want to be committed before giving that part of yourself away. You'll know when the time is right. Until then, do as you want, not what society says and does. You'll be proud of yourself in the end!