Penis Question - Sexual Health - General Message Board

Auberdine · 09-12-2003, 11:20 AM

I was just wondering...Do most men try to hide their soft penises? My boyfriend of 4 years has never let me see it or even touch it if it's soft. I try to and he pushes my hand away, until HE gets it hard and then he always wants me to play with it. I don't know if he's embarrased about how small it is when it's soft or what. He's actally bigger than average when hard (7 inches). Also, I thought maybe it eas because he's uncircumsized, which I have never said anything about that and I honestly don't care. Any suggestions?

John R Umstead · 09-12-2003, 11:47 AM

He's just self-conscious about both that's all. Size and skin when it flaccid. 7 erect is not bad so.... 2 suggestions: 1. Spend more time keeping him hard. 2.Stay away from viewing those porno big boys together. He'll appreciate the first suggestion and won't have to deal with the second! Good luck

sdp2 · 09-12-2003, 11:48 AM

It's probably because he's uncircumcised. It's like a stigma that us uncut guys can have growing up in a cut society. He may be self concious about it and is afraid you will be turned off by it.

Able Lena · 09-12-2003, 05:00 PM

Just a note to the uncut guys:

It's very, very nice for your female partner. It makes you feel more velvety and sensual to us.

I'm not looking to hook up! I just wanted to let you guys know that you are lucky you were never cut, and so is your lady. Just remember how important hygiene is, whether you're cut or not.

sdp2 · 09-12-2003, 05:06 PM

Well, thank you darling...

Are you aren't looking to hook up?? Hmm? (just kiddin' ya)