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Old 10-28-2003, 07:01 PM   #1
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My boyfriend and I recently started having sex. We were both virgins. The problem is after 8 times it still hurts quite a bit. We figured out I react badly to spermacidal comdoms (they dried me out badly and stung my insides), so we got ones that weren't. I guess my question is, what positions are there, or what else should we do so it doesn't hurt so bad, or to break me in should I say? (btw..We use LOTS of lubricant) Thanks, iwishserenity
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Old 10-28-2003, 10:13 PM   #2
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You should probably go ontop so that you have control over how deep he penetrates. I also find that doggy style is extremely comfortable and not painful at all. I have been having sex for 2 years with my boyfriend and sometimes it still hurts!
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Old 10-29-2003, 05:40 AM   #3
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If youve only had sex 8 times it still may take a few more before it stops hurting. It took me a while my first time until it stopped hurting. Even now, like you, I dont like using spermicidal condoms because they sting me as well. Its good that you are using lots of lube, thats pretty much all you can do right now. As for positions, like the poster above said, try with you on top. Ive found it to be the one that feels the best as well. There are certain positions I would advice against for now, which I have found make you feel "tighter" like with him on top and you with your legs up. Or any kinda "weird" positions. I would stick with the basics for now until you get more used to it, then you can start experimenting with new positions when it doesnt hurt quite so bad.

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