how quickly are 40-plus year old guys expected to bounce back after sex? marriage of 14 years ending. in new relationship. we were together for the first time. we only had two hours. for the last 14 years, it's pretty much been one and done for me. no repeat performances within the same day - let alone a repeat performance in a two hour period. so i really have no idea what your answer will be. we continued to be intimate. and we played with each other a lot. but i could not quite regain myself to completion. is one time in a two hour period normal? is that all the man has in the tank. right? or should i be looking into medication.
I'm not 40 yet, but close (38) and I can normally get hard again as well as I did when I was 20. I can normally be ready to perform again in 30 minutes tops if I want to, usually less. We have sex often I would say (3-5 times/week), so the need to do it twice in one day is rare. I usually last a good while the first time. Every guy is different, so I wouldn't worry about it.