Re: married couple sexual activity... normal?
Yeah...having kids really dampens your sex life,no doubt about that.
My husband and I used to laugh because even when our daughter was like,4,we would go in the bedroom and try to have a quicky,and we wouldn't be in there 2 minutes and our daughter would be trying to open the door and crying that we were "leaving her out",lol.
You and your wife need to make sex a priority.Daily servicing may be a bit of a stretch,but at LEAST once a week you need to give the kid to a sitter or put her to bed early,have a glass a wine and decide that is going to be your sex time.
Yeah,it lacks spontaneity,but is crucial for you to be connecting more then just a few times a month.