HealthBoards - need help!! please read!

last year i started seeing this guy. we started sleeping together. not long after that i get a uti. no big deal right? well i go to the doc and its not a uti. a year later still in pain, cant have sex, and cant find a doctor who can figure out whats wrong with me! i'm going into debt real quick paying for tests that dont find anything. i cant work, i can barely go to school.
Symptoms: pain urination, painful intercourse. i cant wear tight jeans anymore, i cant wear thongs anymore. i cant workout as much as i want too. the list goes on.i have vulvadynia and vaginismus already, though there doesnt seem to be a connection between those and what i'm currently experiencing. I have been tested for every std under the sun, and nothing comes up. i have had a cystoscopy, a ct scan, and ultrasound and countless urinalysis. i have been tested for interstitial cystitis and it came up negative. im running out of options and need all the help i can get.