Re: What is going on here??
I will try and answer this as good as possible hopefully not upsetting you.
"when my bf and i first got together we had a long distance kind of relationship. so we constantly had vid sex."
How soon did this start? Some men might lose respect for you if you do these kind of things early on.
"after all the video sex and what not he was finally going to be coming home meaning yippy for me real sex finally! it was amazing!"
Did you ever discuss feelings? Was there love involved at this point?
"i came across one were i was refered to as the prego roomie"
That's just disrespectful, that would bother me personally
"although the sex hasnt gotten any better. he watches porn regularly saying it entertains him. but it seems hed rather do that over have sex with me!"
Some guys like it because it's less physical exercise for them. Have you discussed the porn and why is he picking it over you?
"he loves anal in fact he seems to prefer that to any other form."
Seems to be like he can only get off on the worst stuff now, because normal stuff is not deivant enough for him.
"forplay kissing is all non existent."
Some people would say that is the best part! If you love someone you just want to kiss and hold them.
"this morning i woke up to him joking about how he was gonna masturbate wiht me lying right there. i got on top and wanted to have sex but he pushed me away and said he didnt feel like having sex it would take to long! so with hurt feelings i rolled over to go back to sleep and then he actually masturbated with me lying in bed right next to him!"
Did he use porn infront of you? If he masturbated whilst looking at you perhaps he was just too lazy for sex. How old are you and him if you don't mind me asking?
"whats going on here! is my drive to high! is it normal for the sex to fizzle out this much?!"
I will say what I know about men, if he hasn't got any respect or love for you, he will get bored, I'm sorry to say it. What are you looking for do you want sex and love? It sounds to me like it is just sex. Did you do other couple stuff?
Last edited by Mod-S4; 01-03-2012 at 06:48 PM.