Re: Sexual Fetish Help
Fetish behaviour is just that, a behavior that's not shared, accepted or understood by the general population. Unfortunately for you, your wife is reluctant to explore and understand on her own what this fetish entails for you. Have you considered seeking a support group, anonomously on line of course? Have you sought out articles ( look at psychology today website ) to help you explain this to her in terms that are easy to understand? She may not ever come to accept it and you have no right to expect her to since you hid this aspect about yourself for so long but, she should at least be exposed to the psychology behind fetish behavior and be more informed and less judgemental in her thoughts about it and you. And, lastly just because she may develop an understanding doesn't mean that you can force/expect her to accept fetish behavior in the sexual relationship you share together, especially if it turns her off.