I have been married to my wonderful husband and we are enjoying our sex life but we are not into oral thing. Recently I got a kick of wanting oral sex and can't get it out of my mind. But every time this "gross" feeling takes over thinking that these private parts are used for something else too (peeing) and putting it in mouth is gross, the smell of pee, etc...is it normal? Is it not bad for health? What should I do to get over it?
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As well as your husband has no transmitted disease then oral sex will not be bad for your health
Your feeling is normal at the begging but after a while you will use to have such practice and it will bcome more than normal
Let your husband clean his privet part well and you will enjoy giving him oral sex
Glittery, it's understandable that the thought of putting a penis in your mouth brings to mind thoughts of urine. Lots of people feel that way. Rest assured that male urine is sterile under normal circumstances. You could try having a shower with your partner before sex -- soaping up his penis may even form part of the love play . My best wishes for a happy time together.
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I find it interesting that the 2 guys that responded to your post just assumed that your question was about you "giving" oral sex as opposed to receiving it....
Either way for most married women, sex isn't all that spontaneous so you have the chance to wash before hand as does your husband. And generally there is no "pee" smell on either if they're both clean. If you choose to give your husband oral sex, you might want to have a discussion with him beforehand about how you plan to handle him ejaculating. If you work all the kinks out, before you try it then it's not embarassing or uncomfortable and you can add different pleasurable activities to your already healthy sex life.