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Old 05-08-2012, 06:42 AM   #1
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Unhappy Boring sex with wonderful boyfriend?

I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we live together.

We have sex every day, and at the weekends - more.
Maybe this is the reason but recently i've started to become bored with sex.

At first he would kiss me and get me in the mood, he would go down on me and we would try loads of different positions. We brought food and toys in and we would have sex for hours and it was brilliant.

Now I can't tell you when I last had great sex. I miss thinking about the night before!

My boyfriend stopped giving me oral, and stopped getting me in the mood. He now just starts touching himself and then he'll grab me and stick it in!

He told me about his fetishes. I try all his suggestions but they don't really turn me on at all. I still give him oral and try to be sexy etc but he doesn't return the favour.

I do orgasm most times we have sex, and I can't exactly say it's bad sex, but I feel it's all for him...

How can I get my boyfriend to include me more when we have sex? I want him to make me feel sexy, not just expect me to be ready when he is and have it last 5 mins...

Apart from the sex we have a great relationship, i'm always laughing...

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Old 06-09-2012, 11:00 PM   #2
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Re: Boring sex with wonderful boyfriend?

First you need to cut the sex down to three or four time a week, and tried to tease him but do not have sex. The most impt is to text him when you are in the mood for sex with suggestion of what you like him to do when you both meet, i hope this works for you.

 
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Old 06-10-2012, 09:50 PM   #3
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Re: Boring sex with wonderful boyfriend?

Sounds like you need to have a talk with him and explain what's going on. It would be a real shame to destroy a great relationship over something that might could be fixed if you had some good old fashioned "communication". Is he even aware that there is a problem? It doesn't sound like it?

Guys aren't always aware of all the nuances of lovemaking that women are, it can be 2 totally different worlds.

Talk to your guy openly and honestly before things get out of hand.

If he's not willing to change things once he knows how you feel, well then you have a problem and need to do some thinking and see where you want to go from there. Sex is not the most important part of a relationship, but it is an important part and both sides need to be satisfied, or the relationship has a slim chance of working.

Take care,

Kat

 
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