Originally Posted by mykahbb3
I started dating this really sweet guy. He's also very shy, and the last two times we've made out, I'm not sure if he's small, or he just had a bit of stage freight. And couldn't get it up ? I've never encountered problems like this , so I don't know what to say to him. I want to tell him it doesn't change anything, if anything I want to help if it is stage freight. Any advice ? Thanks.
Sometimes, especially when dating someone new, our you-know-what reacts that way due to nerves, maybe performance issues, shy, etc.
Go slow and then maybe even ask him how he feels about an encounter with you and that you really like him are there to help.