I just don't know what's normal.
How many of you are in long term relationships, 2 years or more, still love each other and are attractive but don't have as much sex as you did a year ago?
It's taken me a long time to realise my boyfriends low libido isn't about his attraction for me but sometimes the fact that we can go two-three weeks without batting a eyelid at having sex can make me feel uncomfortable.
I have an abusive childhood sexually and then a lot of my past relationships were very sex based. My currently relationship is amazing compared to my ex's but the lack of sex bothers me to an extent.
Then there's me, the past year my libido has shot down to basically nothing, a month ago I started having panic attacks again which my boyfriend thinks is affecting my libido.
Basically I'm new to 'healthy' normal relationships so I don't know if theres a problem or not or if I'm just worrying unnecessary.