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Old 07-27-2012, 03:17 PM   #1
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Sex with my gf feels like shes a stranger

Hey folks, so when i have sex with my girlfriend i dont feel any love or compassion on her part. For her sex is just sex. She always says how much she loves me and all that, but when it comes down to having sex i really get irritated because she will always say things like shut up or shhhh. So i feel like im just having sex with a complete stranger and i dont like it.

 
Old 07-27-2012, 04:49 PM   #2
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Re: My girlfriend shows no love or passion during sex

Sit her down tell her how you feel tell her what you want and need from her and ask her the same what does she want and need from you during sex hope it helps

 
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Old 07-27-2012, 05:04 PM   #3
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Re: My girlfriend shows no love or passion during sex

I told her and she just says that im weird and that for her sex is just sex.

 
Old 07-27-2012, 05:29 PM   #4
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Re: My girlfriend shows no love or passion during sex

Do you think shes in love with you does she only act that way toward sex?

 
Old 07-27-2012, 06:04 PM   #5
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Re: My girlfriend shows no love or passion during sex

Oh i know that shes in love with me, but she only acts like that during sex.

 
Old 07-27-2012, 08:41 PM   #6
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Re: My girlfriend shows no love or passion during sex

Hi Dman01, it seems you aren't satisified with the current situation. Have you asked her if she is willing to participate to your satisfaction? There are many people out the that have difficulty expressing themselves or letting go during love making. Sometimes we all wish we could have that person in life that can instinctivlely know what we want and can provide us with that fullfilling feeling. I would just say take it one step at a time. You should try to show her lots of attention and affection throughout the day to see how she responds. The other thing would be just enjoy yourself while you're in the moment and try not to take it to heart.

 
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Re: Sex with my gf feels like shes a stranger

Step 1: Talk to your girlfriend about it. Be honest, but friendly, and explain your feelings.

If she responds favorably and changes her behavior or explains why she acts like that and you can accept it, then problem is solved.

If not, proceed to step 2.

Step 2: Drop your girlfriend and find another that can return your affection while intimate.

 
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It's possible you are not compatible in bed. However, maybe she doesn't like to talk while having sex? What do you want her to do? You have to tell her this.
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Old 07-28-2012, 05:28 PM   #9
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Re: My girlfriend shows no love or passion during sex

I dont care about talking in bed, when we have sex she treats me like a one night stand and when were done she gets all lovy dubby. It annoys me

 
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