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Old 08-05-2012, 07:46 PM   #1
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My husband doesnt want sex as much as me.

Hi, my husband and I have sex often, but I seem to want it more then him. Don't they think about sex every 10 minutes? Also even hours after sex... It's like he's done with me for the day, ignores me and things like that. He knows he does it and he wishes he wouldn't.

Any ideas? Do you need more info? If so let me know, thanks

 
Old 08-06-2012, 09:48 AM   #2
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Re: My husband doesnt want sex as much as me.

haha they might THINK of it every 10 minutes, but don't have the energy to perform it every 10 minutes.......

 
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Old 08-06-2012, 11:25 AM   #3
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Re: My husband doesnt want sex as much as me.

Do you mean he ignores you as in acting as if you are not there, or do you mean he just doesn't respond to your advances? If the second, i would say he is definitely having his sexual needs met. I hope you can reach a middle ground with each other, so you are both happy. Sera

 
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Re: My husband doesnt want sex as much as me.

I never said I wanted sex every ten minutes...

What I mean is, he ignores me as if I'm not there. And if I talk to him or want to go somewhere he makes a big deal that he doesn't want to go. Let me give you a for example.

If we do not have sex, and we go to a movie or a store, he will want to hold my hand and be loving to me... If we do have sex before hand, I'm just another person on the street it seems. And I feel he doesn't wanna be around me, he's noticed it too which then causes him sometimes not wanting sex. Which then makes me feel worse.

So should I just suck it up and deal with it? I just wanted opinions.

 
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Re: My husband doesnt want sex as much as me.

I don't think that this is that rare. A lot of women complain that they only get affection when their guy is horny. Don't let him ignore you tho, call him on this. You cannot force affection, but you sure as heck can force respect and consideration for your feelings. Sera

 
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Old 08-10-2012, 03:30 AM   #6
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Re: My husband doesnt want sex as much as me.

I definitly have called him on this, and he realizes it himself. He feels bad and he doesn't understand why he does it. Anywho thanks for the help !

 
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