I just found out that my boyfriend of 5 years has been posting on and looking for intimate encounters with TS/TV/TG, I sure didn't see this one coming at all. The depth of betrayal is almost incomprensable and I am not sure what to do at this point. I don't think I could confront him.
I think you will have to confront him, how can you not. It will eat you up trying to keep it all inside. Unless you talk to him you are going to drive yourself mad with questions buzzing around in your head. It will not be easy but you deserve answers.
You cannot proceed without telling him what you have found. This is too big to keep to yourself. It has to be brought out in the open and dealt with. It may end your relationship, but you can't go on like nothing happened. Sera
Thank you all, I am not sure of how to confront someone with a secret life. I do know that I can't live knowing what I now know. I have been acting as if nothing is wrong because I went into his stuff without him knowing. This will end our relationship without a doubt but I can't breing myself to tell him what I know, it would end not in a good way. I am the only other person in this world that know's his secret and I know him well enough to know that he will not let me just go if I tell him. I just can't seem to understand how I didn't see this or how this could even happen. I am not the one with issues, he is and this isn't normal or right.