can i ask personel question mate why is your wife's ex an ex for did she ever tell you why? Because the other man is always gonna be the ex with what you said about her ex
He always treated her like ****... and ended up cheating on her.
Not 100% but think you maybe been hit hard by your wife because she got treated C*** With her ex you shouldn't have to put up with it but i do think if you accept another man into your relationship you will lose her because i wont be far wrong that its more likely going to be the ex boyfriend
This is a tough situation. Not sure what to suggest. I definitely would NOT agree to bring in other men. No way. That's not marriage. If she wanted to continue dating and sleeping around then she should not have gotten married. I have a friend that was in a similar situation and as soon as he gave his wife a green light for other men to join them, she somehow worked it around to ONLY sleeping with other men and never him, and later left him for one of the guys she was sleeping with. If your wife loves you, she needs to set her desire for other men aside. IMO.
I don't want to embarrse you but do you have abit of money? My friends just got from the usa not sure if you can order these tablets called ViaGrow from the states here but my friends have brought some and have tried them and its made there penis quite big not sure if it helps maybe if it works on you she wont need another man. But if you cant get viagrow there some called Vimax if you have internet google search them m8 hope it works for you
would you mind telling me what tablets she got you? Erm me mates where abit insecure about there private parts then they got these ViaGrow and they seem to have worked so far they said only got back few days ago.Erm i thought roughly 5 to 6 inches thought was roughly average size of man's penis doctors have answered me that i went throught that faze worried about my size so i have tried tablets before seem to work ViMax but havent tried ViaGrow yet
I was kind of hoping not to have to take pills. I was hoping to please her with what i have.
The option you may have is warning her if she goes and cheats don't bother coming back to you and say you made a mistake when she hasn't. Yes i agree you should not have to take pills to please her it should be enough if she loves you enough. But you mentioned the ex. So its more likely to be the ex you could tell him your points like how he treat her before she got with you and if she went back to it she could end up been treated bad again and you shouldnt have to put up with her cheating. Cause if you let her do it once she will do it again and again mate
I can't believe you're still putting up with this!! Basically she's Bored of you and wants to have your consent to have sex with someone else. What she's saying is wrong in so many ways and you have to see this for what it really is. I feel so upset for you! you're the onlyone thats really going to get hurt at the end of all this. I am sorry you are going through this. I was in the same situation before and I left. I was not going to belittle myself for his pleasure. That just let me know he was no long devoted to me or desire me alone. After I left I was told he was cheating on me. Sometimes it hurts to let go but it will hurt more to stay and watch it happen. What ever you do, do it for you.
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Sorry to hear about your situation. I think the bottom line is what do you want more....sex or your wife? Because your wife is into size. Dont mean to be mean...and while your wifes communication skills are less than ideal, she has told you so. She may have been 100% truthful..that she thought she could make the size issue go away, given that everything else is great....but apparently she cant. You two really need to talk this out, perhaps find a good marriage counselor, and figure out what the two of you really want. And solve it sooner as opposed to later...good luck
Maybe you should try a penis sleeve. And it's not all about YOUR size, it's about the 'fit' of the two people. If she had a tinier vagina, you'd be good.
I really believe she is using your penis size to make you feel inadequate and a reason to have sex with other men. Iv'e always liked the saying. "it's not the pen, it's the penmenship."
Honestly I'm speechless. One thing is your wife's behaviour, but you putting up with it? What's up with that?
Some couples like threesomes or the swinger life. Good on them if they can make it work. But if you talk to couples with this lifestyle you will find that their agreement is based on mutual respect, love and loyalty.
What your wife is doing is neither. She is talking badly about your size to manipulate you into a threesome or open relationship. That is just wrong.
Her actions reflect no respect, no love and no loyalty. She is blaming you for your size, making you take pills, she even tries to push you into a threesome or open relationship that you don't want. It's crazy.
The worst part is that she won't even compromise or try other things. There are many positions that allows the guy to penetrate deeper. She herself can train her muscles in her vagina so she becomes more “fit”. There are sex toys. Lots of stuff you guys can experiment with.
Unhappy or not, she has no right to treat you this way, but if you just lie down it's very easy for her to step on you. So get up, stand up and say “no”... It won't kill you.
truth is... idk... i feel bad too. Not to sound pathetic, but I am not experienced. I have only been with 2 women. I have never wanted to be one of those guys who sleeps with anything that walks. IDK... I just kind of think my lack of experience is an issue too.
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Re: question about wifes comments on "size" 
