ok... i am new here and well... I am not sure where else to turn. Its kind of an embarrassing subject, so I didn't want to bring it up to my friends.
My wife has said, on multiple occasions, that her ex was much larger than me.... how am I supposed to really react to this? I am not experienced, we have been married for a while... but I was only with one other girl, she was with more men.
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I agree, that is a TOTALLY nasty thing for her to say. Does she actually expect you not to have hurt feelings over the comparison? That's just so rude and unloving. So sorry!!
I don't think that she's necessarily thinking of her ex
and wishing it were him, rather than you, but I don't know WHAT she expects you to do with what she's saying to you. I would tell you to start talking to her about your ex with the larger breasts,
but you're too good, to get down to her level.
Last edited by slenderella; 09-21-2012 at 01:05 PM.
I don't think you should just ignore it. I mean, it's incredibly ignorant of her and she should stop.
Basically, she's either mean or clueless (when it comes to this) and since you love her and don't want to make it nasty, give her the benefit of the doubt and the next time she throws it out there, just let her know you'd rather not be reminded of this.
If she does it again after that, then I would ask her why she did it and see how it goes from there.
You need to find if she has been cheating on her ex while with you if a woman loves you no woman would have fetch up ex's penis size to a loved 1 would be abit like you saying my ex had bigger breats then you hunny/darling. but it wouldnt be nice and its not nice her fetchig it up
I'd have been all "and I wish you were tighter", lol. (No, not really.)
You gotta talk to her about this face to face. She married you, so obviously it wasn't a deal breaker, but now you have to talk about making sure she lets it go, because complaining about it isn't going to change its size. And make sure she's satisfied other ways, because it isn't all about the penis.
we had a long talk about things this weekend... that part was nice. At least we can still talk i guess. She says shes happy in other way, says I am the best at other parts. That's the good news. The bad news is... she thinks mine is too little. She says, and I am not sure how much to believe, that she truly thought she would get used to it, and when she didn't, she tried to ignore it and just enjoy it. But over time... she just cant.
My head is just spinning... i don't know what to think.
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