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Old 10-24-2012, 07:29 AM   #1
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10 years ago i would wake up my husband masterbating, he would try by all means that I would not hear him but alas i always did. Asking him he would not give a straight answer why he does it but I have always suspected that he was attracted to a new girl at his work place. It haunted me for years and have manged to make him talk 10 years after why he would do it when I was available and willing to have sex. He confirmed my suspcions but vehemently denied that he slept with her or had an affair. He insists it was just his imagination. I am devasted. Had trusted him so much and i am not sure how to pick up the pieces of my life

 
Old 10-24-2012, 05:16 PM   #2
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Re: masterbation

hi there i know you must be hurting but remember its in his imagination tell him how you feel tell him your hurt ask him if he still loves you hope that helps.

 
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Old 10-24-2012, 06:30 PM   #3
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Re: masterbation

It's normal to masterbate and fantasize about other people, even when you are married, especially for men, but also for women.

If I were you, I wouldn't be devastated IF he's treated you well over the past 10 years, including sexually. If not, THAT is your issue imo.

 
Old 10-25-2012, 11:27 PM   #4
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10 years ago i would wake up my husband masterbating, he would try by all means that I would not hear him but alas i always did. Asking him he would not give a straight answer why he does it but I have always suspected that he was attracted to a new girl at his work place. It haunted me for years and have manged to make him talk 10 years after why he would do it when I was available and willing to have sex. He confirmed my suspcions but vehemently denied that he slept with her or had an affair. He insists it was just his imagination. I am devasted. Had trusted him so much and i am not sure how to pick up the pieces of my life
Thank you. It makes the difference talking to you guys and your replies have made me see things differently

 
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