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Old 11-07-2012, 04:06 PM   #1
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Bored with sex

Ok, a quick explanation of my situation:

I'm 30 and have been ating a woman for over a year. She lives about 50 miles away, and because of her job won't be able to move any closerfor at least a year. S we don't see each other during the week. She always works every other weekend, so we see each other two weekend a month.

So, this is kind of the last issue I'd ever thought I'd suffer from, but for the past few months, I've been pretty much uninterested in sex. Not that I don't have a sex drive; I mean I'm not interested in the physical act itself. To put it bluntly, I'm bored. Sex takes a lot of time and effort, and I jst don't enjoy that any more. I look for any excuse I can to avoid having sex, because I just cant maintain any level of interest in it. We still have sex once a weekend (usually) just for her sake, but I'd be happier not having it at all.

Obviously this is a problem. She's getting her feelings hurt because she thinks I'm not attracted to her (I assume), but the fact is I'm not interested in sex with anyone. It's like, why spend an hour with someone when I get close to the same results in ten minutes with a dirty movie and a tissue?

I'm bored with it and want to avoid it. I don't enjoy it any more. It feels like a lot of work and stress, instead of being a source of fun. It's a chore, a job instead of a hobby. I don't know how to explain that to her, or even if I should. I don't know WHAT to do.

 
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Old 12-26-2012, 10:29 AM   #2
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