rejected and feeling unworthy
Been married 9 years..husband has low sex drive even though he looks at porn often...it hurts when he brushes me off and then i see him in front of the computer in a dazed stupor. He has more excuses/cop outs than all the wives with headaches!
We are in a round and round spiral..i try getting him interested with naughty nities, and let him take nude
Photos....but even with he is hit or miss...i feel
rejected lonely angry confused.. ive been fighting depression...but i keep trying over and over to seduce him...then im iritated and let down and he becomes more distant..its a vicious circle i fear that im sending him bad vibes, but he has caused them...i miss the sincere loving man i married...im very said right now cuz he took shower and convinced myself he would want to be intimate...i tried kissing and caressing him with my fingertips, he sighed and said he was just too tired....and that my persistance made him feel guilty...i do not want a romp because he feels guilty or to stop my bad feelings...i want him to want me cuz of hunger, desire , and need...but again i have been rejected. I feel insignificant im angry and hurt hence the vicious circle...should i just give up and deal with it?
Someone please help me before he and i crash and burn!
Last edited by 1istheloneliest; 11-12-2012 at 10:46 PM.
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