I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, it's been a while we're distant from each other but still we've managed to keep our contact by talking mostly over the phone almost every day…
Lately his attention and desire to have sex with me has been completely shifted away and instead he has started to express his fantasy/love for cuckolding/swinging and insists that he loves to see me having intercourse with three other men while him watching/filming me… at first I just thought that it's a fantasy he has and it will disappear over time but it's been two months since and he doesn't seem to give up on this fantasy despite me making him nicely understand that this is not what I'd what in a relationship and that it'd eventually ruin everything…
So now my concern is whether men having such desires are considered 'healthy'? Or is it a paraphilia?? And should I carry on with this relationship (our relationship is so deep that the thought of breaking up and finding someone else makes me collapse all the way…)? I'm just so confused and nervous, I'd appreciate your thoughts.
Last edited by CelineT; 11-28-2012 at 06:36 AM.