Originally Posted by mummycloggs
I have been married for 6 years, have to wonderful children and I love my husband very much. If I am honest my husband has never had evry much confidence in the bedroom department and has never really satisfied me. Over the past few years I have tried my hardest to build his confidence (I believe an old partner told him he was terrible once - ouch) as well as trying to teach him about what works for me, however things are still not good.
I admit that I have a high sex drive and I have never been able to orgasm through just intercourse but my husband does not seem to want sex very much and when he does its all about him. I have shown him where I like to be touched but he still backs away from this so I only really get to orgasm if I do it myself.
I have tried all the tricks I can think of to spice up our sex life and although I would never cheat on my husband the thought of never having a good sex life terrifies me. Does anyone have any suggestions?
Hi I just read your post, not sure I can help you but a few suggestions may or maynot help..if your hubby does not satisy you in bed or he just thinks about himself first sorry but ( he is a selfesh man) what you might try is when you guys make out and he gets ready to penetrate you don't let him , build your self- esteem up first..make forplay last longer it maybe hard for you but try to make ''him'' wait then maybe your aroused much better, sometimes doing it yourself is the only way to go beings that your married, your hubby should concider your feeling much more..