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Old 12-13-2012, 07:14 AM   #1
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pain with intercourse

hello ,
I'm not sure how to ask this question without being to informative?or to much information?
I experince very bad pain with my b/f his penis is rather huge and when he pentratates its ok but he is very thick and long and if he thrust like half way in that feels good but he has to thrust fast and deep and I can't stand it...we use a good quilty lube and I'm very aroused wet and things of this nature but when he thrust fast I can't stand it he has to stop and he gets frustrated with me..this is our realtionship in jeperdy...I been to the Dr about it but she just saysI'm healthy no problems so I need to get more forplay& aroused and use lots of lube'' if he is that huge'' & ''ask him to be more gentil'' (which I have) but he gets all frustraded and rolls over and mad... anyone know what can be done?

 
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I went threw this with my boyfriend. If he's that big he's went through this before with other women and should have developed patients by now. Just slow everything down until you get used to him.

 
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Thank you, I don't know if he has been with other women we never discuss that?
My other b/f before was not as big and it felt ok he was average I guess but the guy I'm with now wow he is like 12 inches long, Now if he goes slow and about half way in it feels real good but he says he needs it in as for as he can go or the sex is no good for him..I've tried to let him but its just to painful no matter what we do positions lube, aroused, lots lots of forplay...if he won't listen and concider my feelings...I'm telling him to hit the door because I can't stand to be hurt like that...I;m 22 he is 24..been togather about 3 months. thanks for your response.

 
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Re: pain with intercourse

you might try being on top, that way you can better control his penetration.

 
Old 12-24-2012, 08:49 AM   #5
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Re: pain with intercourse

Thank you
I've tried that..nothing seems to work...I eneded my realtionship with him he just thinks about himself and seems not to care if he hurts me or not he gets off finishes then its roll over wake me up at ect,,ect,,then he falls off to sleep , he never conciders my feelings and emotions ,he hurt me again for the last time the other night I was bleeding a'' tear I'm sure'' I just can't go on being phyiscally hurt like this so I told him I don't want to see him anymore he said thats fine and left...so this realtionship is over.

 
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Old 12-27-2012, 06:49 AM   #6
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I went threw this with my boyfriend. If he's that big he's went through this before with other women and should have developed patients by now. Just slow everything down until you get used to him.
Just curious as to what some of you think?
Did I make a hasty selfesh decision by ending this realtionship based on this kind of problem? I mean am I wrong? Not sure I was in Love with this man but he keeps bothering me calling me leaving notes '' I'll change I 'do better'' I'll get help'' and telling me how much he is in love with me''...but I just don't believe him its happen to many times , HE NEVER DOES WHAT HE SAYS HE WILL DO HE HAS MADE TO MANY PROMISES THAT HE CAN'T KEEP.

I just feel kinda werid breaking up because of this kind of crazy problem but I need to think about me and my body too!
any thoughts out there?
Thank you for your response and advise!

 
Old 12-30-2012, 03:24 AM   #7
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Re: pain with intercourse

A..ack, don't blame yourself. You said he never kept promises in most of things. He will do it again. Yeah, except the lack is just the intimacy, then you may reconsider for it.

Move on, there are plenty of man around yourself.

 
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A..ack, don't blame yourself. You said he never kept promises in most of things. He will do it again. Yeah, except the lack is just the intimacy, then you may reconsider for it.

Move on, there are plenty of man around yourself.
Thanks, This Realtionship has come to end and I'am HAPPY once again single but Happy and feeling a lot better. This guy was Afrcian American & I'll never get in to another Innerracial realtionship ever.

 
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