| | Issues with intimacy
About a year ago I came out of a two year relationship, I decided to move on and start seeing other women. Soon after deciding I also find men attractive. I'm not sure how this started but when I finally 'make my pull' and get a girl to come home with me and we finally get to the point of being completely naked I start to get really nervous and struggle to keep erect, it's somewhat embarrassing.
But when I'm doing sexual stuff with a guy I'm able to keep erect but only if I can't see his face (I think this is because they mostly have slight facial hair, sounds stupid I know) but I don't think I'm ready to start having full intercourse with a man.
All in all I prefer women most put I seem to be getting kind of scared to give oral, for the fact I get nervous and it makes my male parts retract even further back..
But with men I'm eager to give oral, it just doesn't add to my sex drive, still unable to get erect.
don't know what to, and I don't know what to think. Can someone please help me understand what's going on! I don't know who I am.
Last edited by ImRatherWorried; 01-09-2013 at 01:49 AM.