is this normal?
My fiance and I have been together for four years. Lately our sex life is nonexistent. I keep pushing him for sex, and all he comes back with is "I'm tired, I hurt from work." Okay, I get it, he does do a labor job, but it isn't construction work like one of my exes who never had a problem with sex after work. I've tried to spice things up and he isn't wanting to have sex. My biggest problem is, he will pick a fight with me, and while I go into another room he will get onto the computer, watch porn, masterbate, then go to bed. I am so sexually frustrated but I refuse to go outside of my relationship. I've tried every approach to talk about more sex and every time he shuts me down or just says like I said before he is tired or sore from work. I have said if you are that sore from work you need to see a doctor. I don't know what else to do or say. Should I just walk away while I can? I just don't know if lack of sex is a big enough reason alone. We average about once every 3 months. I'm 32 and he is 34. I have needs! lol