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Old 02-16-2013, 08:15 AM   #1
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The denial of Fetish

I am interested in fetishes, however, my wife only wants normal, vanilla sex. What should I do?

 
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Re: The denial of Fetish

Don't say anything, vanilla people do not understand unconventional sexuality. If you tell her it could be a major source of contention between you and your wife.

 
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Old 02-17-2013, 07:25 AM   #3
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Re: The denial of Fetish

How am I to deal with my desire for fetishes?

 
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Re: The denial of Fetish

I would really like to give you the proper answer. If you told me what the fetish is it would certainly help. Thanks

 
Old 02-17-2013, 12:55 PM   #5
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Re: The denial of Fetish

I have been married heterosexually for almost 5 years. Through this time I have found some social anxieties and fears that I have been over coming little by little. Now I am finding that I could possibly be classified as Bi-curious. I do enjoy anal/prostate stimulation but am very nervous and afraid of my wife's reaction to this. I have talked to her about it. She says she finds it weird and seems to be uncomfortable with the idea.

I'm just really afraid of her reaction if I try to get her to try anything out.

 
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Re: The denial of Fetish

start out with other things first.

 
Old 02-25-2013, 11:23 PM   #7
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Re: The denial of Fetish

You're on the right course with communication with your wife. As she tries to understand your point of view, try to understand hers. Love conquers a lot.

 
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