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Old 11-17-2003, 11:55 AM   #1
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Difference Between Anal and Vaginal Sex

I have had only penetrated vaginas with the ladies I have been with. But, I never had the chance to enter the anal cavity. I am just curious as to how it feels compared to the vagina. Thanks.

 
Old 11-17-2003, 04:23 PM   #2
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Penetrating the anus is very tight... but inside it is an open void... I suppose because it is a smooth gut. My penis feels nothing on the head but I still feel her entrance being tight on my shaft.

The wonderful vaginal feels so good to my penis head, due to the inside of the vaginal it feels good all the way to the bottom or as far as my penis will reach.

Anal sex is good for it is so forbidden. It can be pleasure, only if done right. To me it something to experience but will never come close to the vaginal.

 
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Old 11-18-2003, 07:23 PM   #3
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Penetrating the anus is very tight... but inside it is an open void... I suppose because it is a smooth gut. My penis feels nothing on the head but I still feel her entrance being tight on my shaft.

The wonderful vaginal feels so good to my penis head, due to the inside of the vaginal it feels good all the way to the bottom or as far as my penis will reach.

Anal sex is good for it is so forbidden. It can be pleasure, only if done right. To me it something to experience but will never come close to the vaginal.
DOES THAT MEAN YOU ARE GAY?

 
Old 11-18-2003, 09:34 PM   #4
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DOES THAT MEAN YOU ARE GAY?
What a ridiculous question.
In what part of the post does he insinuate being gay. He's speaking about the vagina the whole time and how he enjoys that more.

 
Old 11-19-2003, 05:17 AM   #5
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Is not necessary to be gay to have anal sex with women.

It's a quite enjoyable activity and can be extremely pleasant for women and men. You has to know how to do it to not cause extreme pain in the ladies (it can be extremely painfull for women if done forcefull).

We really enjoy it very much with my partner and do perform it quite oftenly and we are not gay nor extrange people. Also is much more usual activity as you can supouse.

 
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DOES THAT MEAN YOU ARE GAY?
For your information females have a vaginal. Also "her" refers to a female.

 
Old 11-19-2003, 06:51 AM   #7
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Thanks, Lelu -- nicely detailed. My current girlfriend will be my first time going into the rear position. She needs to prep for it and all, but I am pretty excited. Her vagina is pretty tight as it is (one of the tightest I have had), but I guess I am just curious because it seems like most guys have done it once. All they keep telling me is that it is tight, but I have no inkling of what it actually feels like.

 
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Tauren you need to prep also.

First go slow, use plenty lube, you can not use too much.
Plenty foreplay, one finger then two, when she can take two fingers with NO pain you are ready to try. But then go slow, if she says it hurts.. stop.. anal sex should never hurt!
Never go from the anus back into the vaginal without washing the penis very good.

I always use my finger and then 2 different sized anal plugs to get my wife open and relaxed before I ease my penis in. After I get in I let her tell me when to go further.

We were married many years before we tried anal sex.

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Old 11-19-2003, 11:41 PM   #9
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Re: Difference Between Anal and Vaginal Sex

"Never go from the anus back into the vaginal without washing the penis very good."

Even better, wear a condom when having anal sex. There is quite a bit of bacteria that you don't want entering your penis.

Have fun,
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Old 11-20-2003, 03:55 AM   #10
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Re: Difference Between Anal and Vaginal Sex

Anal sex can be painful if not done properly. Preparation is a must.

The tightness in penetration is caused by the sphincter muscles. There are two rings of sphincter muscles about a quarter inch apart located about a half inch deep. The other ring is a voluntary muscle. It is the one you can control during bowel movements. The inner ring is involuntary and it is the one that says "when you gotta go, you gotto go". This inner ring is key to whether anal sex is a painful experience depending on how much it tenses up involuntary. It is a matter of control and relaxation and some women, and men, have better control over it right off the start. Even though it is somewhat involuntary it can be relaxed by starting off inserting something smaller like a finger or two and massaging the inner sphincter ring. With time and frequency the inner ring can be controlled to the point of relaxing it voluntarily.

Unless you are extraoridinary in length and girth, the depth of penetration is not always as much of a concern as getting past the sphincters, but still be gentle and always let your partner dictate the pace.

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Is extremely silky when you'r inside. Motion has to be slow and soft.

Be kind and gentit. Do not inflict pain to your girl so do it extremely carefull. Get advise looking for the topic on the web, there are very good information which will be helpfull for you and your gf. Avoid porno sites there are thousands and worth nothing.

 
Old 11-20-2003, 05:39 PM   #12
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Re: Difference Between Anal and Vaginal Sex

Thanks ladies and gentlemen -- your words are very insightful. I appreciate your words of advice. I promise to be gentle, use extra lube, wear a condom, etc. I definitely do not want to hurt her.

 
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