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Old 01-06-2004, 07:16 PM   #1
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masterbation no longer good,buying a porno but feel guily? im just a guy right?

I dont know which way to turn here, but maybe im just acting plain childish.
Im a 22 year old virgin and im horny about every other day and sometimes once a day I like to masterbate. I have a few short segments I watch on the computer of porno flicks, but I think maybe I watched the same few to many times? I no longer feel like relieved after I masterbate. I dont know why? Maybe the 4 short 5-10 mintue clips is always the same and doesnt get me excited?

Or maybe, Im masterbating to much and it doesnt have that great feeling anymore. I want to buy a porno tape, I live with my rents and I just feel so guilty about even watching this short clips. There both great parents, but they have a heavy belief in faith and I know this would break there heart if they ever found out.

Hopefully they never will find out. But, do you think just watching the same scenes is why I dont feel great after I masterbate? Maybe there not exciting me as much as they were. I wish I could have sex, but that is a whole different story. Im so busy with work, school and other stuff to actually go and meet girs etc. i want to feel relieved at least. Please help me!

 
Old 01-07-2004, 02:19 AM   #2
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Re: masterbation no longer good,buying a porno but feel guily? im just a guy right?

Hey bud, this is actually fairly common. I just think that at times we get a bit "bored" with things and need a bit of spice to help. I'm sure you'll enjoy masturbation again and you'll get that old feeling back. Sounds like you're pretty busy as well and that can lead to some stress which can almost make masturbation a "habit" that doesn't necessarily bring alot of pleasure. I'd suggest that you change alot about your masturbation. Try waiting longer between sessions, if you're not using lubrication...try it. Change everything you can, grip, speed, location (ever done it outside?) And yes, changing the images you're using can help as well. If you're worrying about folks finding anything, maybe a video isn't the way to go, how bout magazines? I can't really send you to another site but there is a great resource on the web for masturbation. If you do some searches using "jackin" you'll probably find it. As to being so horny at 22....man I remember that age and I was the same way...and not sexually active either. Don't even think about being too horny, that is so common for all of us, particularly at your age...you're in your sexual prime. Hope some of this helps!

 
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Old 01-07-2004, 05:41 AM   #3
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Re: masterbation no longer good,buying a porno but feel guily? im just a guy right?

Thanks a ton man, that really helped me out. Yes I do know that site you are talking about, I remember seeing it one day. Ill have to check it out again for myself. I really appreciate you responding as well as you did. I thought I would just get made fun of or something, but you didnt and actually helped me out. I appreciate it. Once i rememeber my older brother had some magazines and they didnt do much for it. I thought some of them were more funny with those story lines. Some of them seemed to unreal I couldnt help myself.
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Hey bud, this is actually fairly common. I just think that at times we get a bit "bored" with things and need a bit of spice to help. I'm sure you'll enjoy masturbation again and you'll get that old feeling back. Sounds like you're pretty busy as well and that can lead to some stress which can almost make masturbation a "habit" that doesn't necessarily bring alot of pleasure. I'd suggest that you change alot about your masturbation. Try waiting longer between sessions, if you're not using lubrication...try it. Change everything you can, grip, speed, location (ever done it outside?) And yes, changing the images you're using can help as well. If you're worrying about folks finding anything, maybe a video isn't the way to go, how bout magazines? I can't really send you to another site but there is a great resource on the web for masturbation. If you do some searches using "jackin" you'll probably find it. As to being so horny at 22....man I remember that age and I was the same way...and not sexually active either. Don't even think about being too horny, that is so common for all of us, particularly at your age...you're in your sexual prime. Hope some of this helps!

 
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