Can it be worn out? - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

chevyman · 02-19-2004, 12:09 PM

This is a werid or stupid question but here it is

When I have sexual intercorse with my girl it don't feel good to me anymore ?? I mean there is no feel down there when I'm inside her? it's like she to big? I mean I am pretty big myself above average size in length and girth but it talkes me for ever to [orgasm] because she is so loose? I have ask her to do the kegal stuff? but she is offened by that? I JUST DON'T ENJOY IT MUCH ANYMORE....MAYBE I HAVE JUST "WORE" IT OUT? has any of you guys had this problem?

supertrooper · 02-19-2004, 12:32 PM

Interesting that you chose to post this on the Men's board. Anyway, I think frequent intercourse can "loosen" things up, but only a little. I'm assuming she is well lubricated and she won't complain about that. Doing Kegels will help things stay firm down there but the best thing is what she can do with them. She should "squeeze" you either on the way in or on the way out. She can only keep those muscles clamped down for so long.

Do you wear a condom? Try an ultra-sensitive model.

Use positions that allow her to keep her thighs closer together. Doggie style with your knees outside hers. Missionary: after you enter she closes her thighs and you basically straddle her hips. Lots of stimulation for you and the strong possibility you will be rubbing right on her clitoris with every stroke. Very intense. Lay like spoons with you behind her - she closes her thighs after you enter. The basic idea is to change the angles so that the right parts of you are rubbing against the right parts of her.

chevyman · 02-20-2004, 12:28 AM

Interesting posting this in the Mens board? why is that? I didn't think it would be such a good ideal to post it in the woman's board? lol /maybe tho.... lol

Thanks for your response I have already tried all the positons you mention/ I have held her up aginst the wall and put her legs way up high in front of her face that feels pretty good but it really hurts her? and not to comfty for either of us? maybe I gettin smaller down there??

supertrooper · 02-20-2004, 06:30 AM

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Originally Posted by chevyman

Interesting posting this in the Mens board? why is that? I didn't think it would be such a good ideal to post it in the woman's board? lol /maybe tho.... lol

Thanks for your response I have already tried all the positons you mention/ I have held her up aginst the wall and put her legs way up high in front of her face that feels pretty good but it really hurts her? and not to comfty for either of us? maybe I gettin smaller down there??

I didn't want to be the one suggesting you were smaller.

LOL

Is it possible that, after a few minutes, you might not have a full erection?

You didn't answer my question about condoms. When I used to use them I often found they reduced sensitivity, prolonging intercourse

or sometimes a loss in stiffness due to reduced stimulation.

chevyman · 02-20-2004, 04:32 PM

No I don't use condoms.

She can't get pragnant both ovries tubes was removed.
Is it possible to become smaller? I don't lose the erection it stays up pretty good hard thick.......may have to order me a bottle of them pills that they say will add 3 inches...lol nah j/k... I bout kill her as it is.

I'll figure out something?..... I'm pleasing her just fine...sometimes to much I start to rub her raw then thats when it gets bad for me so I pull out and stop!!! whats werid tho is she use to be sooo tight couple years back... now she lose as a goose...lol
Anyway thanks!