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Old 02-23-2004, 05:00 PM   #1
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Angry Can't ejaculate during intercourse

For some time now, I have been unable to reach orgasm/ejaculation during intercourse with my wife. Though our attempts are infrequent (another issue, for another thread, for another day) Every time we do have intercourse, I wear out physically without relief.

I am able to ejaculate during masturbation.

I am Diabetic, and have high blood pressure, and often have trouble maintaining erections during intercourse as well.

Are there any ideas as to how I can accomplish this, naturally or artificially?

I want to have children, but my wife is unwilling to provide "supporting" activity, such as oral or pre-intercourse stimulation of any kind, and she becomes frustrated with my inability to perform, which has lead to the infrequent attempts.

Any help?

 
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Old 02-24-2004, 12:27 AM   #2
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Re: Can't ejaculate during intercourse

Hey NYCDUDE, every where I go on these boards you are telling everyone to use [reference to product in deleted post]. Have you ever read the warnings for this stuff? The guy you just told to use it said he had high blood pressure. For everyone out there, this is the warning. Warning: This product contains Yohimbe. Do not use this product if you are at risk or are being treated for high blood pressure, kidney, thyroid, or psychiatric disease, anxiety, depression, seizure disorder, or stroke. Consult your physician before using if you are taking MAO inhibitors or any other prescription drug. Not for use by children under the age of 18.

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Old 02-24-2004, 08:13 AM   #3
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Re: Can't ejaculate during intercourse

I'm well aware of the dangerous side effects of Yohimbe and other "Natural" cures for ED.

My doctor prescribed Viagra, and while it worked, it also made me too sick for it to matter that it worked.

One solution I'm thinking of is something I've vaugely heard refered to as a "Bullet" vibrator that attaches to the penis and stimulates both partners. Has anyone had a good or bad experience with something like this?

 
Old 02-25-2004, 05:07 AM   #4
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Re: Can't ejaculate during intercourse

i hav a similar problem, there is no chance in heck of me ejectulating within my partner, it just wont go without the warm embrace of miss parmer (my hand) and the longer i have sex the longer it takes to do manually afterwoods, most the time i just give up and go to sleep... any advice would b good

 
Old 02-25-2004, 05:08 AM   #5
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Re: Can't ejaculate during intercourse

I've used the "Bullet" on my penis while making love. I lasted about 30 seconds. Way too intense for me, but if I wanted to orgasm quickly this would do it for me every time.

 
Old 02-25-2004, 05:29 AM   #6
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Re: Can't ejaculate during intercourse

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I've used the "Bullet" on my penis while making love. I lasted about 30 seconds. Way too intense for me, but if I wanted to orgasm quickly this would do it for me every time.
Maybe the best idea would be to put the "Bullet" on but not turn it on until he wanted to orgasm? Seems like the best of both worlds to me.
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