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Old 04-01-2004, 02:40 AM   #1
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Question Can seman leak from the penis

I know that a fluid can leak from the penis prior to ejaculation. And I have heard that a fluid (seman) can leak from the penis sometimes afterwards.

My Questions is - Can seman or other fluid leak from the penis at any other time, when there is no physical stimulation?
Is this a normal common occurance? What causes it?

 
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Old 04-01-2004, 03:17 AM   #2
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Re: Can seman leak from the penis

I don't think so, particularly semen. For some of us the mere thought of something sexual may cause an erection and some pre-ejaculatory fluid to be produced. But in my experience, stimulation is required for semen to leak. Now, I have heard (and it has happened to me) that sometimes while urinating or even the other bodily function can lead to a bit of semen being expelled. This is usually when there hasn't been any sexual activity or its been a while since an ejaculation. Those two processes will often put just enough pressure on the prostate to cause a tiny release of semen, although it happens, its usually not common...most of us masturbate frequently enough or have sex enough so this doesn't happen.

 
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Old 04-01-2004, 04:58 AM   #3
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Re: Can seman leak from the penis

Lance, thanks for the info. The reason I want to know is that I think my husband has been cheating on me. Lately on laundry day I have found more than a urine stain or two. I find (excuse the graphics) like a "crusty" stiff area on the cloth, sometimes as small as the size of dime to the size of a quarter, where it's obviously not just urine. When you say a very tiney amount, is this what you're talking about.

 
Old 04-01-2004, 06:09 AM   #4
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Re: Can seman leak from the penis

When it's been a few days since I've ejaculated and I strain for a BM it's common for some slimy/sticky cloudy colored fluid to leak from my penis. I've had this drip out for several minutes after I get up from the toilet and when it gets on my underwear it does dry into a very crusty, hard stain (but it will wash out) similar to semen. It's possible that's what you're seeing.

It's also possible he's masturbating and getting some leakage afterward that's leaving stains. I wouldn't assume he's cheating on you from just finding some semen like stains alone.

 
Old 04-01-2004, 02:16 PM   #5
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Re: Can seman leak from the penis

Thanks for the info. I feel a little better. But, that's not the only clue I have that he might be cheating. There are the usual ones: Lies about where he has been, avoiding eye contact, not much action at home, caller ID numbers deleted, He got a cell phone and didn't tell me. Unusual charges on the credit card, home late from work quite often with stupid excuses and he comes up with stupid excuses for things when I haven't even asked him anything.... Then there's female intuition - that gut feeling that somethings not right.

But the lying is what gets me. He lies about things that don't serve any purpose. It's like these are practice lies, maybe to see how much he can get away with? Do all, or a lot of men lie for no reason, unnecessarily, or to make themselves look good in a situation, things like that, but not just for covering something up? I do know a few guys that do.
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Old 04-02-2004, 03:33 AM   #6
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Re: Can seman leak from the penis

In my profession I have to go with my gut instinct alot...if it sounds "off" then it probably is. I don't know for sure and certainly can't say if your husband is being unfaithful...but it sure sounds like you have reason enough to suspect. All the signs are there, starting with so much dishonesty. I think its time to confront him with your concerns and see what happens. And no, not all men lie to cover things but there are some (of both genders) that do it without problems at all. Good luck and I hope things are ok for you.

 
Old 04-03-2004, 02:38 PM   #7
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Re: Can seman leak from the penis

I wouldn't automatically assume that your husband is cheating on you just from finding stains in his underwear. However, you should be suspicious from all the other things you've described..including his obvious dishonesty. Your intuition may be telling you the right thing. Hope everything works out.

 
Old 04-03-2004, 07:14 PM   #8
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Re: Can seman leak from the penis

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Lance, thanks for the info. The reason I want to know is that I think my husband has been cheating on me. Lately on laundry day I have found more than a urine stain or two. I find (excuse the graphics) like a "crusty" stiff area on the cloth, sometimes as small as the size of dime to the size of a quarter, where it's obviously not just urine. When you say a very tiney amount, is this what you're talking about.
I don't want to alarm you, but there is a small possiblity that he may be cheating. If he is having an affair, then he is possibly putting his underwear back on soon after a sexual encounter. Sometimes seman continues to "leak" for a few minutes, so this is what may be going on. Or, as one poster has suggested, he is masturbating and putting his underwear back on soon afterwards.

 
Old 04-06-2004, 02:29 AM   #9
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Re: Can seman leak from the penis

I am a male and wear black underwear, and sometimes when I get really aroused with a girl, or even if I am watcing an erotic movie, I notice that my black underwear get little white stains all over the crotch area, and I didn't ejaculate or anything. So that may not be a sign he is cheating, he may be downloading porn from the internet and watching it. You can take his underwear to a lab by the way and have it checked for other woman's bodily fluids I believe.

 
Old 04-06-2004, 09:24 PM   #10
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YES, semen can leak from the penis

Don't jump to conclusions. Semen absolutely can leak. It builds up, particularly if a man goes awhile without ejaculation, or if he dwells on sexual thoughts without coming, or masturbates then then puts his underwear on without urinating first (often a few drops linger in the urethra). So maybe he's not cheating! If he is, I'm sure there is other, stronger evidence.

 
Old 08-19-2004, 10:11 PM   #11
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Re: Can seman leak from the penis

Hey,
On word, absolutely. Everytime after I masturbate, I lie on my back and relax. As my erections fades semen builds up on my stomache. After you ejaculate, yur penis has to get rid of the excess semen that is left in your penis so that it will not start to rot and get infected. It is the same think as when your body uses precum to clean the acidic urine residue from the inside of your penis before masturbation or intercourse. Don't worry about it.
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Old 08-20-2004, 08:33 AM   #12
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Re: Can seman leak from the penis

all of what everone has been saying is right.

if guys are aroused, a little bit of semen can leak out. same goes for right after orgasm.

it sounds like you have reasonable cause to doubt your husband's faithfulness, but i would not count the stains as one of them.

if it was me, i'd be playing detective and trying to catch his *** doing something with someone else before confronting him. but that's just me..

 
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