Erection difficulty - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

Flec · 06-23-2004, 11:06 AM

im 18 and i cannot maintain my erection i fear this is a problem... when masturbating i can maintain my erection for a very long time however when i am with my girlfriend my erection needs constant attention or it goes limp, also during intercourse the longer i go the limper it gets until i am to limp to continue, sometimes i can orgasm and ejaculate while most of the time i dont

Lance2 · 06-23-2004, 03:09 PM

Hey bud, this is pretty common so don't get too worked up about it (no pun intended) There can be several causes of this. Here is the main point, you know that your penis works...it works for you all the time and stays up and ready for action. This should tell you that the problem is not physical. Chances are you're worrying about this too much and that only makes it worse. Our two heads are very connected, so any thoughts, fears or concerns may cause the lil guy to lose some of its erection. Frustration over that only leads to more problems. The other thing that could be happening here is this.. our penis gets very accustomed to our masturbation habits. The grip, style, speed and technique we use is very different to a vagina. So, the lil one has to get used to its new environment and accustomed to the different stimulation a vagina offers. So, calm down and keep working at things. Try to change any masturbation to a new way each time. loosen your grip, add lube if you don't use it already, change speeds, grip etc...do anything to make things different. Main thing is taht you and your girl need to work together on this...don't let the frustration get in the way. I'll be glad to offer more help if you need, please feel free to keep in touch with us. Good luck!

alphamale9009 · 06-23-2004, 03:48 PM

Too much adrenalin increases sympathetic nervous response which leads to withdrawal of blood from the penis. To increase parasympathetic response, low dose of paxil, about 5 mg to start. Increase the dose if you need to, but i doubt it. Now you can get this medicine from a doctor, but there are other ways to get it which are legal and easier, using your computer. Anything more than that and the moderator will delete me. Good luck. May your Tao be strong.

alpha

Lance2 · 06-23-2004, 04:17 PM

Maybe the moderators should delete you...again giving suggestions for prescription meds this guy doesn't need to solve his erection problem. Please, go take some yourself and stop giving out such poor advice!

Radical Mech · 06-24-2004, 02:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Lance2

Hey bud, this is pretty common so don't get too worked up about it (no pun intended) There can be several causes of this. Here is the main point, you know that your penis works...it works for you all the time and stays up and ready for action. This should tell you that the problem is not physical. Chances are you're worrying about this too much and that only makes it worse. Our two heads are very connected, so any thoughts, fears or concerns may cause the lil guy to lose some of its erection. Frustration over that only leads to more problems. The other thing that could be happening here is this.. our penis gets very accustomed to our masturbation habits. The grip, style, speed and technique we use is very different to a vagina. So, the lil one has to get used to its new environment and accustomed to the different stimulation a vagina offers. So, calm down and keep working at things. Try to change any masturbation to a new way each time. loosen your grip, add lube if you don't use it already, change speeds, grip etc...do anything to make things different. Main thing is taht you and your girl need to work together on this...don't let the frustration get in the way. I'll be glad to offer more help if you need, please feel free to keep in touch with us. Good luck!

Lil one? -_-