Ejacualtion Problem (Lance can you Help!?) - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

Dreamer3866 · 06-27-2004, 06:09 AM

Hi,

My problem is one that no Dr or Urologist has been able to figure out so I come here in search of help!
I am now 38, but when I was 23 I had a normal sex life and after ejaculating the semen pumped out and everything was fine.
One day when I was 23 I felt this sharp pain (like a knife) between my anus and testicles. It dug in hard and stung for about 30 seconds then left. After that pain I found everytime I ejaculated some semen would come out but then a minute or two later more would 'leak' out. This was quite a bit and was semen, and the only way to clear it was to go to the toliet and pass water which I found after a push would 'clear the tubes' and solve the problem of having residue semen leaking into my pants.
As I have got older nothing has worked to fix this and in fact now after I ejaculate some semen comes out in a dribble and more is 'trapped' and has to be milked out manually after which follows a clear substance.
There is just a lack of power and contractions that used to propel it out and if I left it after sex I would end up with a mess, so I usually have to go pass water to clear things.
No one can solve this despite seeing Dr's and urologists who have ruled out stricture or serious disease. I do KNOW for a fact thought that after that severe pain nothing was ever the same and it also affected my urine flow for some months making more urine spurt/drip out about 20 seconds after I'd finished for about 3 months after the pain at age 23. This problem has gone but the ejaculation one remains.
The only thing that could be a clue is when I had a rectal exam at 23 after this problem it stung like hell and the Uro said I had a puffy prostrate and prostatitis. I was given antibiotics for this at the time and swabs etc from milking tests showed no organisms.
What the hell could be wrong or could have happened back then that has caused this problem?
ANY help would sure be great and BEAT the Dr's and URO's who just shrug and don't know????

Regards Sam

Lance2 · 06-27-2004, 11:11 AM

Man if no doc has been able to help with this I'm not sure I can. My initial thoughts as I read through your question led me to believe that this was something prostate related and it still sounds a bit like that. When was the last time you had a prostate exam? Is that routine for you as part of physicals? I also wonder if a consult with another doc or clinic that specializes in sexual matters would be helpful. I'm sure bro that you're just fed up with the medical folks and docs but this isnt' normal for sure and has to be incredibly frustrating. Maybe there isn't a "cure" and you'll have to live with it..but for docs to be stumped and not refer you on isnt' cool either. Sure wish I could be of more help but that is about all I've got to offer. Drop a note back about those questions and we'll see if someone else can help here too!

Dreamer3866 · 07-03-2004, 08:11 PM

Thanks for the advise,

It is really frustrating and annoying!
I think from here I might ask for an exam and ask for a cystoscope to 'see' what could be the cause of this problem.
It does seem prostrate related Lance as I had prostrate inflammation at the time (when 23) and it was very very sore and boggy on exam but that passed leaving the lack of power problem in it's wake. No infection was ever found though.
It seems like a lack of muscular push really and is directly related to that pain I had way back when 23. I'm going to get my Dr to follow this up more now as I want answers and thanks for the advise...........I may also go to the fertility clinic where they specialise in these things.
I'll let you know how things go but would be interested if any one else had/has a problem like this?

Once again thanks Lance

Lance2 · 07-03-2004, 09:05 PM

Hey man, no problem. Sure am sorry you're dealing with this. Sometimes we gotta push our docs to follow up on stuff. In order to help, he's gotta have all the problems and your encouragement to solve it or at least figure out what is wrong so you can solve it with some help from someone else. Keep me posted and good luck