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Old 10-25-2004, 11:49 AM   #1
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ejaculation/oral sex

Ok,
I posted a thread about a week ago asking if an injury to my lower back could have caused a decrease in erection and ejaculation. I have another question relating to ejaculating from oral sex. My girl friend recently went down on me, and I was unable to ejaculate. I feel like I hurt her feelings, because I didn't orgasm. I have heard that it can be hard to ejaculate from oral sex because you are so used to masturbating yourself, and get used to one specific way. I have only had one other girl go down on me and the same thing had happened then. I told my recent girlfriend this and I don't know if that helped any. Any advice on this. I know there is also the saying that the majority of sex is all mental, maybe I am just thinking to much about not performing and that is causing a problem as well. I appreciate any insight.

JGP

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Old 10-25-2004, 12:14 PM   #2
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Re: ejaculation/oral sex

We'll, I'm not sure about the lower back thing, but as far as not being able to ejaculate by oral sex, it is not all that uncommon. My bf has the same problem. He even told me early on that it is very rare for him to orgasm this way. Saturday night we had success, but this is only the 2nd time it has happened. It's fun trying anyhow. And a bonus when it does happen I hope your girlfriend can understand that it has nothing to do with her. Also, make sure she is using her hand along with her mouth when she performs oral on you. This should help out alot. Good luck.

 
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Old 10-25-2004, 01:15 PM   #3
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Re: ejaculation/oral sex

I actually, found it easier to ejaculate by oral sex, then actual sexual inetrcourse, but everybody's different. good luck. Just the thought of having my GF licking me everywhere is a super dooper turn-on .... probably you are right, mentality is very important ... make sure you think about the right thing during sex then ....

 
Old 10-25-2004, 01:20 PM   #4
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Re: ejaculation/oral sex

I have found it to be much more difficult to ejaculate during oral sex than in intercourse. Somehow the mouth never quite hits the right spot, but it sure feels good anyway.

 
Old 10-26-2004, 10:28 PM   #5
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Re: ejaculation/oral sex

Thanks everyone for the info. We'll see how it works out. My girlfriend has been a little distant since it happened. I'll have to see if this is just coincidence, or maybe this really bothered her, I don't know.

Thanks again for the responses, at least you put my mind at ease.

JGP

 
Old 10-27-2004, 09:12 AM   #6
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Re: ejaculation/oral sex

You lucky guys that have to worry about this! LOL

 
Old 10-27-2004, 01:27 PM   #7
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Re: ejaculation/oral sex

I have to work at not ejaculating when my wife performs oral sex. I find that tough.

 
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