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Old 11-22-2004, 01:12 PM   #1
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assume hes cheating

is it fair to assume my husband is cheating if he has semen stains in his underwear? or do men have some kind of leakage even if he has not ejaculated.

 
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Old 11-22-2004, 01:37 PM   #2
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Re: assume hes cheating

A young man can easily have semen leakage after a bowel movement or even after urinating. He may have masturbated during the day and have semen stains from that. I would not assume he is cheating just becuase he has semen stains. You must not trust him very much to assume that. When I was young I would often have semen leaking after a bowel movement or after urinating. Why don't you talk to him about the stains.

 
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Old 11-23-2004, 10:29 PM   #3
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Re: assume hes cheating

He dosen't have to be young or even sexually aroused to get precum stains in his underwear. Some men can produce quite a bit of precum while other men do not. He may be one who does leak precum regularly, it is not a reason to assume he is cheating.

 
Old 11-24-2004, 04:36 AM   #4
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Re: assume hes cheating

He could be arroused thinking of your last lovemaking session or just getting normal regular erections. Precum from tese sorts of erections will stain his underwear.

 
Old 11-28-2004, 07:27 PM   #5
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Re: assume hes cheating

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He dosen't have to be young or even sexually aroused to get precum stains in his underwear. Some men can produce quite a bit of precum while other men do not. He may be one who does leak precum regularly, it is not a reason to assume he is cheating.

Is this true? I think i fall into this category, but I want to make sure its not any other problem. I see some clear fluid at the end of urinary stream and/or bowel movement, Urologist said my prostate is normal.

 
Old 11-29-2004, 12:15 AM   #6
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Yes, this is true. I was reading on a men's nudist forum (I am a Nudist) that many men tend to get some precum whether they where sexually excited or not. In fact I have a small amount right now, completely clear.

 
Old 11-29-2004, 09:34 AM   #7
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Re: assume hes cheating

Nudist? kool


I meant after urination or bowel movement?
I have yet to experience it coming out on its own.

thanks for the reply

 
Old 11-29-2004, 09:16 PM   #8
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Sorry I have not heard of that. Maybe it could be caused by straining while you are taking care of "business."

 
Old 12-04-2004, 05:01 AM   #9
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Re: assume hes cheating

You definintely can't assume he's cheating. Adults can get wet dreams too and it's not as if anyone would notice it happening, neither husband or wife.

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