Sign Up Today!

Interfab · 11-22-2004, 11:40 PM

I work in the adult industry, the company I work for owns adult sites. Because of this I see porn every single day, every fetish.. I, like my coworkers, don't even get aroused by seeing sex, not even in person at photo shoots.

For the past year or so I've had difficult times acheiving erection with women, even though I really want to have sex with them. It's like I WANT to have sex with them, but I don't feel turned on. I have a very hard time getting aroused.

Could this be because of the fact I view porn regularly and am hard to impress?

On one occasion I've gone soft DURING intercourse

Any opinions or insight would be appreciated.

tommy124 · 11-23-2004, 07:28 PM

I don't think it's from porn, though I could be wrong. I think it is from worry over porn, and fear that porn might be making a problem for you.
Try and relax, and be in the moment. Lots of touch and stroking, with a minimum of self talk going on in your head, might be what you need.

positive4u · 11-23-2004, 10:37 PM

Anyway to get totally away from work for awhile (e.g. a vacation) and see what happens?
Positive4U

Interfab · 11-25-2004, 04:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tommy124

I don't think it's from porn, though I could be wrong. I think it is from worry over porn, and fear that porn might be making a problem for you.
Try and relax, and be in the moment. Lots of touch and stroking, with a minimum of self talk going on in your head, might be what you need.

Thanks! I think I'll try that.. now that I think about it my self talk probably sounds like a telemarkers convention

Sign Up Today!

Join Our Newsletter

Whoops,

Thank You