Ok, I know that there has been numerous threads on ppp's and we here the same thing every time "just deal with them" but the threads have to continue and we must work to get rid of them. I can tell you that they are ruining my chances with girls. You guys do not understand, if a girl saw or felt these things she would not like it at all. This is in the back of my mind every time im hooking up with a girl and causing me to not even do anything with them. I know there is other guys with this same problem and there has got to be some way to get rid of them. Its obvious the toothpaste and all these different types of creams are not working, but we have to keep trying, this is a cry for help! as funny as that sounds im serious. We cant give up becuase the doctor said they are just part of us, we have to get rid of them.
Last edited by JacobRaff; 11-23-2004 at 01:05 AM.
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if they were really as unattractive as you have made them in your mind, your male ancestors would have been unable to attact a mate, and you would not be here.
truly and honestly, this is the kind of thing a man obsesses over, ruining his peace of mind, and the kind of thing his date does not even notice.
do you honestly think that if you treat a girl like she is the only thing in your world, and show here every care and courtesy, that she would reject you because of some almost invisible bumps on your penis? you do not give them enough credit for intelligence, then.
This is my point exactly, they are not almost invisible and infact stand out very much to where its the first thing you notice, this is why I am so insecure about it. I have not become obsessed or anything but I am just very concerned because it is not ordinary at all. I want to find a way to get rid of them, it doesnt have to be like this, I just want some help and feedback from other people with the same problem.
Listen... I hope I can change your life by replying to your thread..
I was originally one of the first men to post a thread up on PPP. Trust me man, always wanting to have sex in the dark, not wanting to hook up because of your fear that your partner might see those little beads on the rim of your penis. Oh and the toothpaste ( It makes your penis really dry ), the nail polish remover, vicks cold rub, that other thing in the brown bottle that oxide thing that puts the scabs on your johnson. Yeah man im not lying. I even went through all of high school thinking i had genital warts. I bought cortizone, wart removals, the Dr. gave me Elicone, was even about to get the aldara. I know how you feel. Your only messing up your dingle ling. The best advice that i can give to you is you have to wake up and just not give a hoot one day.
My friend if it wasnt for PPP I wouldnt be on this board. And prolly many other men wouldnt be on this board either. Mr. HeyDude was going through the same thing your going through but not anymore. Look. I dont know if the remedies your reading are real but, i do know this. To make you feel more comfortable, watch a porn, and i dont mean to be gay but, if you pay attention carefully, most of those guys have PPP going around the head of their penises. But they are small and his is because the penis is so hard that the PPP stretch out and get smaller. It becomes almost invicible. If the head of your penis is the same or almost the same complexion as the shaft of your penis, your a lucky person. If you can get an erection so hard that the papules stretch out, then your lucky. I am neither.
Being that im uncircumcized, the tip of my penis is just a little bit lighter then the shaft. I get a really hard erection, but i have a little bit more fore skin then the average guy. ( Elephant Trunk ). Im taking it a step at a time you know. Im not going to ask for oral just yet. Luckily i just got some in the past 3 weeks. In the dark. But that dosnt count. Oh yeah!! When you hold your penis in your hand, keep in mind that, you can see the bumps better then she can. Cuz you see right behind the rim. You see the bumps. She only sees a one eyed monster.
When i first had sex, i was 19. I didnt even care if she saw them or not. I said F it man. I need me some sex. I didnt even care if she was going to ask about them. I just whipped him out and threw the condom on. I dont even think girls notice them man. Just like we dont notice those bumps around a girls nipples. The sex was great.
All my worries shifted from, PPP to keeping an erection after i orgasm, trying to give a girl one. In grown hairs, razor bumps.
But listen, this post is really long. If there is anything i want you to remember from this post, remember this.. My advice.. Exclusivly from me, MR.HEYDUDE.
Tomorow i want you to wake up and not give a rats *** about your fears.
Live your life man. Sex is great. Stop waisting time cuz I think your need summ.
What you wrote is definetly made me think the other way with these things but it really is hard. And I know you understand this. Its just I am in college now and want to be comfortable with my sexuality and these ppp's are keeping me from that. If I were to get oral sex from a girl she would most definetly feel them and im sure she would freak out. I dont feel like trying to explain what these are at that moment in time. I have had sex before but immediatly put the condom on, afraid that she will notice them. I mean, I dont want to obsess over this but I do see other guys penises in porn movies and I see nothing like what I have. They have smooth skin, I dont. I just don't get how we can't ged rid of them. We have so many ways of dealing with the skin, and these bumps whatever is in them cannot be removed? I guess that I really should stop fussing about it and live with them but it is just not easy.
no, man, you've got it wrong. your PPP isn't keeping you from being sexually comfortable. you are keeping you from being sexually comfortable. there is a difference. Mr. HeyDude showed that difference to you. if he did it, you can, too.
the girl is not likely to freak out, because many men have them.
you don't want to get rid of them. they are nerve endings. if you get rid of them, you get rid of the nerve endings which are giving you sexual pleasure.
I can't believe that these things are nerve endings and you really can't get rid of them. Its just that I have seen guys penises in porno movies and the skin on there penis is smooth, I see nothing like what I have. I am making a big deal out of it because you can notice them so much. My skin is not smooth at all. Should I consider going to the doctor? From what I have read with the other posts he will just say deal with it nothing we can do like you guys have been telling me.
I am trying to just not care about it but I want to beable to be comfortable naked infront of a girl and maybe even get oral sex someday. I just know that if a girl saw them she would be freaked out. I am repeating myself but it really is bothering me. Im sorry I will just stop the fuss and live with it.