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Old 11-24-2004, 06:45 PM   #1
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EJaculation problem PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

guys i really need you to help me out, before like a year ago i was having perfect sex, like nothing was wrong with it but now it has changed so much,slowly my erections got softer, for a wile about a month ago, when i was with a girl my erection would go hard for about 10 seconds then loose it and go semi-erected, then limp when i tryed to put the condom on, it is about a month later now started doing kegals, stopped smoking, and my confidence level raised, my erections where rock hard when i went to masturbate and i could last masturbating for about 10 mins- half an hour peice of cake, now about a month later i went to have sex with a girl,( i am not nervous, i dont do drugs, i drink mabey 1ce a month, i masturbate once every 2 days) and for some reason now, i feel like i am about to bust before i even get it in her, im wondering if it is something like a pc muscle spasm,i have been doing kegals for 2 moths and excercising my pc muslce, please somone tell me the problem, and how i can solve it pleaseeee im on my kneees this is seriosly *********** me up with my girlfriend pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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Old 11-24-2004, 07:35 PM   #2
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Re: EJaculation problem PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Well, try some of the desensiting creams. They may help.

What else may work is shifting your thoughts to how you can please her. Focus on what see likes. As you focus on her needs and feelings, your brain may not send such strong signals that loose control.

Keep us posted.

 
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Old 11-24-2004, 08:01 PM   #3
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Re: EJaculation problem PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

As a female i have had a partner who like you would finish before we started, it sounds like your super sensitive Why dont you try masturbating as part of foreplay with your partner before the initial act as it will not only help to decrease sensitivty, you will last longer during the initial act but also by sharing this with your partner it makes things more comfortable for you as well
Goodluck

 
Old 11-25-2004, 08:39 AM   #4
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Re: EJaculation problem PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

if you work your pc muscle to much, can this have negative effects, is there any steps that i can follow to gaurentee sex this weekend,i dont want this girl to think of me like that

 
Old 11-25-2004, 11:40 AM   #5
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Re: EJaculation problem PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

please help guys

 
Old 11-25-2004, 07:48 PM   #6
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Re: EJaculation problem PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

please somone help me

 
Old 11-25-2004, 09:14 PM   #7
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Re: EJaculation problem PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

The special condoms from durex and trojan for lasting longer really work. Actually we seem to find that warming sensations does the same thing too. I don't feel anything different but he lasts longer with those for sure.

 
Old 11-26-2004, 10:57 PM   #8
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Re: EJaculation problem PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

yeah it sounds like your overly sensitive,
you might try not ejaculate while masterbating...as soon as you feel that erge coming on... stop...take a break...couple min at least then go back to master-b learn to control your ejaculation this way! do this for about a month and use tight fitting condoms with this "practice".

you will feel the erge to *** while your thrusting but remember to stop... while your inside her just only stop like 30 sec .....with this and a tight fitting condom at the base of your penis you should go for at least a good 30 min.....sometimes it all just depends on how aroused you are too!
take your time....your intimacy will only get better.
Good Luck!

 
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