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boricuaitaliano · 11-27-2004, 10:57 PM

First timer here so please bare with me..

I was wondering if having no sex drive at all is normal? I am 28yrs, I don't think about sex anymore and don't get erections. The last time I had sex was about 2 or 3 months ago. I had my testosterone level checked out and they said it was normal and my health care provider just doesnt seem to care. I don't need viagra just something that gets me in the mood. I just dont undertsand, I workout 5 days a week and try to eat healthy. I am only 10lbs overweight, don't drink, smoke or do drugs. I should be young, dum and full of

I will add that I am taking medication but my testosterone has been like this for about 3 years and I know the meds I am taking do not help but should not be the cause. The meds should not shut me down completely but I know they play a big part. If I had to rate my libido from 1 to 10 (10 being the highest) I would have to give it a 2 and that's for hope:- )

Any feedback would be highly appreciated,
Thanks.

crushme · 11-28-2004, 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by boricuaitaliano

First timer here so please bare with me..

I was wondering if having no sex drive at all is normal? I am 28yrs, I don't think about sex anymore and don't get erections. The last time I had sex was about 2 or 3 months ago. I had my testosterone level checked out and they said it was normal and my health care provider just doesnt seem to care. I don't need viagra just something that gets me in the mood. I just dont undertsand, I workout 5 days a week and try to eat healthy. I am only 10lbs overweight, don't drink, smoke or do drugs. I should be young, dum and full of

I will add that I am taking medication but my testosterone has been like this for about 3 years and I know the meds I am taking do not help but should not be the cause. The meds should not shut me down completely but I know they play a big part. If I had to rate my libido from 1 to 10 (10 being the highest) I would have to give it a 2 and that's for hope:- )

Any feedback would be highly appreciated,
Thanks.

My boyfriend is the same way. 27...A lil more overweight but works out a lot. He hasn't had his levels checked but isint against the ideas. I have to do all the initiation and it gets frustrating.

chevyman · 11-28-2004, 01:13 PM

Theres to many factors that could be causing this!....all the things you mention is "normal" but meds do cause this some times!

being tired? yes!.... obviously depression -stress plays a big roll in the old sex drive (you can be depressed stressed and not know it)

some times the one your with (g/f) you never mention you was married? if that person does nothing for you ( not turn you on) ect,ect,,,...this will cause the sex drive to have less desire.
I recommend you go see a counsler/ Dr..theres just no reason for you not having a great sex drive at age 28! healthy as you say you are!....there must be a problem some where?....sorry I'm not much help.
Good Luck.

boricuaitaliano · 12-03-2004, 10:19 PM

Yeah I am married of about 4 years and theres no attraction there. That should not matter because I have women coming on to me most of the time wanting to play but I am not interested not because I am married but because my MoJo is gone. I swear I am 75yrs in a young body

Before if I seen a hot women with a nice body I would get excited if you know what I mean

But now it's not there and I know the meds I am taking are part of it or maybe all of it. Does anyone know if there is a medication that puts you in the mood? Viagra, Levetra or even Cialas are for erections and I dont have a problem in that department, I want that mood feeling like when I was 18yrs a dog in heat!
Thnx for your feedback

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