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Old 11-29-2004, 03:21 PM   #1
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Question can not having sex make a man hurt

OK all you men out there !! My husband says he hurts in his groin area if he doesnt have sex..........I say it is something else not his not having any sex for awhile........can anyone relate to this??

 
Old 11-29-2004, 03:26 PM   #2
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Re: can not having sex make a man hurt

Sounds like he is making up stories to get sex more often. Which would not be a very manly thing to do.

all I can say is its not normal. If he persists that there is a pain there send him to the doctor to get checked. Sex is not a painkiller

 
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Re: can not having sex make a man hurt

My husband says, yes, the groin can hurt. However, he was a little weak and said it "kinda" does but does not know why. My DH is older and not answering in order to get more sex for himself, he is past that stage of life.

I did a Google search and men have complained about pain "after" sex.

It is time for your husband to have a checkup to find the "real" problem if there is one.

 
Old 11-29-2004, 07:12 PM   #4
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Re: can not having sex make a man hurt

hmmmmm...yep, sounds like a good excuse to have more sex. And if he is not getting enough of what he wants then he is most likely masturbating which would void his theory of hurting. But, if I am wrong and he is hurting then he needs to see a doctor as soon as possible.

 
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Re: can not having sex make a man hurt

I would disagree with the rest of you. Maybe it's because I have some level of prostatitis all the time, but if I don't have sex or masturbate at least every other day I do hurt and feel very uncomfortable. The testicles can also hurt if they are full. The feeling of fulness in the prostate area also makes for a very unhappy man. A man, when he is full of fluid, has a real physical need to release that fluid. I think it is a feeling a woman can never understand because she does not have a fluid build up in her body. So I say yes he may hurt and yes he does want sex when he is full of semen. That strong desire is something a woman may never understand.

 
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Re: can not having sex make a man hurt

If there are health problems or even lack of desire on the woman's part, she can help her huband by massaging what he likes to have massaged during a cuddle session. She could get a good back rub and he could get a good massage/relief at the same time.

Having said that, we must remember that men can/will want sex at the drop of a hat instead of going for a period of time. Sometimes men and women are not matched as to the frequency and both must meet halfway so neither are denied what they need. Women do need a break from frequent sex sometimes.

 
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Re: can not having sex make a man hurt

If I can say to my GF of what your husband told you, & she really beleives it; Then we would be having sex 7 days a week.

 
Old 12-02-2004, 07:47 AM   #8
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Yes not having sex can cause a man to hurt. And my husband doesn't just tell me that so he can have sex because he knows, if I am not in the mood it ain't happening. Hence comes the mastubation. To release the said liquids in his body, and if a man does not have sex or masturbate and the fluids build up to much, then it can cause what they call Blue balls which is very painful and he will have to go the doctor to have it taken care of which is just as painful. you seen the movies where the man has on a hopital gown and the doctor puts on a glove and then puts lubrication on the tip of his finger. Well that really does happen bend over open cheeks and then



WHOOOOOOSH relief for him. How do I know, my sisters boyfriend suffered from this a couple of times while married to ex wife. Hmmm. Ex wife makes ya wonder why that marriage didn't last. LOL just kidding but seriously think about your man. But don't let him know you know this don't want him taking advantage of your new found knowledge. Hope I helped.

 
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Re: can not having sex make a man hurt

So far as I know, it's possible. I talked to my doctor about it once and he said that there had been reported cases of "blue ball" (I've also heard it called "lover's nut"?) anyways, the names are somewhat vulgar, but it's caused by having a lot of sexual arousal on a regular basis, then coming to a sudden stop. Then semen builds up in the testes more than is comfortable, and it takes time for your body to begin regulating the pace of production again. So if you were having sex every day or two days for a month, then stop, he has a chance of experiencing some achiness and such as a result of not releasing the amount of semen that has built up. BUT this is no reason to have sex, per se, although if he is a man with a propensity for this, you may wish to be sensitive enough to it to either begin pacing your encounters enough that you can leave town on business without torturing the poor guy, or maybe just have sex more.

But then again maybe he just wants more sex. Who knows??

 
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