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Old 12-05-2004, 04:14 PM   #1
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Penis memory?

Hey everyone, just had a weird thought. Recently, I started seeing a woman who really gets me going. We're getting closer to having sex, but I'm worried I won't stay hard enough for it. Now, I seem to be able to stay hard when I'm "using" porn movies and whatnot, so I suppose my brain is wired for it.

Is it possible to switch things up? Stop using porn and concentrate on my woman? Does the penis have some muscle type memory you think? Don't know if it makes sense, as in I want to retrain my brain to get excited over this woman I'm seeing and less over the porn.

 
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Old 12-05-2004, 04:23 PM   #2
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Re: Penis memory?

If you are worried that you won't stay hard you probably won't. Relax and feel the feelings and the hardness will occur probably. Concentrate on the relationship rather than the porn.

 
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Old 12-05-2004, 07:16 PM   #3
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Re: Penis memory?

It's not so much that your penis has memory - it doesn't know the difference between watching porn and seeing a real girl. It's your mind that's the one at work here. If you're having trouble staying hard for your girl, try masturbating while thinking or looking at a picture of her. That way you adjust yourself to the idea of seeing and touching her.

Does that make sense?

 
Old 12-07-2004, 05:05 PM   #4
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Re: Penis memory?

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Originally Posted by something_witty
It's not so much that your penis has memory - it doesn't know the difference between watching porn and seeing a real girl. It's your mind that's the one at work here. If you're having trouble staying hard for your girl, try masturbating while thinking or looking at a picture of her. That way you adjust yourself to the idea of seeing and touching her.

Does that make sense?
I'm actually starting to do that...I'm almost at a point where porn isn't something that turns me on, but she does, which is a good thing of course.

 
Old 12-09-2004, 05:52 AM   #5
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Re: Penis memory?

There is only one thing in the world that turns me on now. I used to get aroused by pornos or looking at other girls naked and stuff. But, now its only when my GF sits besides me. The little thing start to travel for miles. So, pornos and everything else would not help. Only your girl would.

 
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