panther17

Ok so here's my problem. Nearly all of the time I can get an erection but its not as hard as it used to be at all and it only lasts for a few minutes. Normally not long enough to put on a condom. I have had these problems for the past 6 months and am going nuts. I have went to see both my family doctor and then upon his referral to see a uroligist. The uroligist I went to was a noted uroligist in my area and is on the board at Case Western University in Cleveland. He took a look at my testosterone test that my local doctor had done and didn't have much else to say except take this sample of viagra and get over your anxiety. I also had him refer me to a good psychologist in the area to help me deal with this. I took his advice and took the pills a few times. 3 to be exact and 12.5 mg of viagra did the trick for me. I then attempted to not take it and my erections were back to being less than satisfying. What do you people suggest I do. I"ve been contimplating going back to my general doctor to have him do whatever tests he has to so that he can rule out anything phsical but I just don't understand how with me being so young I can have such a problem with this. I very rarely wake up with an erection in the morning anymore. I don't know if thats just because I wake up looking for it or what but I cant take this any longer. I'm 21 and supposed to be at my sexual peak not stuck worring about whether its gonna work or not. Is there a factor that could cause it to be hard in one occasion and not in the other like testosterone levels fluctuating rapidly or something like that. Once I'm inside I've never went soft but its just getting hard and keeping it hard enough for penetration thats getting me. Someone please help me. Any advice would be great. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 and a half years now and I used to be the one with the control in sex and now its not like that at all. What should I do? whats wrong? please help.